American Life Today

My Travel and Life Blog

2010-04-06T10:16:00.000-07:00

Thank you to everyone that has followed American Life Today to learn about a new American each day in 2009. It was a fun project for me to do and I am thankful that you took the time to tell the world about yourself.

I am now writing about my travels and life on my blog HERE. I hope you come along!

Elyse "Karaoke Singer"

2009-11-03T00:01:00.000-08:00

Name: Elyse
Age:25
Sign: Scorpio
I grew up in: New York City
I currently live in: Sunnyside, NYC
Occupation: Associate Editor at the ASPCA and mom of 2
You can find me: singing karaoke with good friends
You will never find me: at a car show
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.aspca.org

1.)What is your dream job? To do missionary work around the world with my family.

2.)What are you most proud of? My two beautiful children and the progress my special needs son has made

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? The loss of free time!

4.)Who would you like to meet? Antonio Banderas

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?
The hardest part is working and taking care of my baby at the same time. The best part is the evening, when the family can plop on the couch and relax.

Tony "I Struggle With Procrastination"

2009-11-02T00:01:00.001-08:00

Name: Tony
Age: 35
Sign: Aquarius
I grew up in: Safety Harbor & Clearwater, FL
I currently live in: Hollywood, CA
Occupation: Account Manager, similar to a Project Manager, in a sales/advertising agency
You can find me: tonynryner@yahoo.com
You will me never find me: actively involved in a church ever again
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.tonynryner.com/ (Note: there is no current content as I'm designing the site, but stay tuned!)

1) What gets you out of bed each day? The desire to improve upon the previous day, not only my actions and motivations, but the immediate world around me. I firmly believe that we all have the capacity and tenacity to improve the world, the way people are perceived and respected, and the reality awaiting our children, young family members and friends. The only thing that limits what we can accomplish in our life and this world is selling ourselves short of our potential.

2) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Being ostracized from the church I was raised in and dedicated seventeen years of my life too. Some may think that being forcefully removed from a reality that nearly two decades were devoted to would be too traumatic to overcome. However in my case it forced me away from the numbing "comfort zone" of my prior life and invited me to embrace who I truly was and take charge of where I was I going. Anger, pain and regret, which were natural emotions I felt after being ostracized, in time were replaced with hope, confidence and gratitude. I encourage anyone to ponder on their immediate world and ask if its helping or holding you back from who you want to be.

3) What would you change about yourself? Procrastination. My procrastination is not fueled by laziness or lack of motivation but rather a lingering fear that I won't be completely successful in all that I do. In time and maturity I've shifted away from being a perfectionist to somewhat more realistic. With that said, when I choose to take on a new venture (occupation, friendship, hobby, etc.), I struggle with procrastination, which stalls how quickly I enter the venture or the amount of energy I exert. Fortunately though I do remind myself of the rewards of not standing still in life, so eventually I get my butt in gear!

4) Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? I grew up in a relatively small town in central Florida, Safety Harbor. As much of Florida, Safety Harbor had access to beaches (I spent the majority of my high school years at Clearwater Beach) and outdoor exercise (beach volleyball was my kick then, though I've never been an overly athletic person). The tree-lined streets, lazy afternoons and eclectic residents of Safety Harbor managed to give me a sense of protection from the ever-evolving, complicated family dynamic in my youth. Being raised in that town provoked me to seek amusement and mental stimulation as the town at the time didn't offer a variety of things to spent my time on. In that environment I grew to appreciate and develop my artistic side. Also I fought against my social awkwardness, ultimately wanting to be seen for myself and not seen as part of the town's unmoving scenery. I've returned to Safety Harbor, driving through it while visiting family in other parts of Florida. Though its "downtown" has developed and a large resort & spa (founded on 2,000 year old mineral springs) rests along its edge, its still that small town where an awkward boy grew out of his extra body weight and social phobias.

5) What is your most prized possession? Though we are all material-minded to some degree, for the most part I strive not to get too sentimentally attached to physical items. My basic reasoning for that is because a physical item can be lost, destroyed or taken and avoiding the impending disappointment and frustration can't be a bad thing. With that said, I have a ring given to me by my grandmother (father's mother) that has found a special place in my heart. The ring was given to her by her aunt who once owned a bar and the ring was left behind by a patron. The ring itself is silver and simple, void of complex etchings and gems. The ring doesn't even fit me, including my pinkie fingers. At times I've worn the ring on a chain around my neck and at other times on a key ring. Since the ring doesn't have family history beyond my grandmother's aunt, as the ring's owner was a stranger, it reminds me that all things happen for a reason. My grandmother's aunt gave it to her, not because it had monetary value, but because she simply thought she'd appreciate it. My grandmother gave the ring to me out of the same motivation, thinking I'd appreciate it. I'll never stop being amazed at how much someone can touch another person's life, simply by doing small things solely to put a small on their face.

Stephen "My Son Is The Best I've Ever Done"

2009-11-02T00:01:00.000-08:00

Name: Stephen "Satyr"
Age:40
Sign:SAgicorn---born on winter solstice; the cusp
I grew up in: ports cities of the Gulf Coast---Dad was a merchant marine
I currently live in:Chico, CA
Occupation:RN- Trauma Nurse
You can find me:@ Duffy's, the Naked Lounge, John Muir Med Ctr in Walnut Creek, CA, biking in Bidwell PArk
You will never find me: Hanging with plastic, superficial people or ever living in the South (ever again)

1.) Do you love what you do? Why? Burningman. It's been one of the most cathartic experiences I've ever had and continue to have---7 consecutive years and counting

2.) What are you most proud of? My son---he's 10. It's been just the 2 of us for the last 8 years and he's pretty incredible. He is the best I've ever done

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Being a single parent

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My dad. I miss him.

5.) What would you want to change about yourself? I was raised in a very conservative family. I've long since shed prejudices and biases. My views are pretty liberal, but with strong family tradition. I strive to be more laid-back and go with the flow.

Kirstin "Everything Happens For A Reason"

2009-11-01T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Kirstin
Age: 24
Sign: Aquarius
I grew up in: Sandpoint, Idaho
I currently live in: Spokane, Washington
Occupation: dental hygienist...soon to be student...again! :)
You can find me: playing outside w/my dog, relaxing with my loved ones, shopping, or cooking!
You will never find me: eating meat.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.peta.org

1. Who or what inspires you? Music is my inspiration engine. Great music motivates me, drives me, and moves me. The "who" would be my dog Jax, who reminds me on a daily basis that it's the simple things in life that count~ to love unconditionally, take naps and don't even feel bad about it because it was time well spent (things like that)...He really does bring out the best in me :)

2. What are you most proud of? I'm definitely proud of being a 24 year old independent woman. I always pictured myself married at this point in my life. I'm proud to say I'm not there and perfectly content. I'm proud to have graduated college, landed a career, and started a life all my own :) It's pretty liberating!

3. What has been your greatest loss in life? I consider myself lucky in that nothing comes to mind...I really live by the saying that everything happens for a reason...

4. Who would you like to meet? I would love to meet the Obamas and have dinner with their family...Abe Lincoln, see what he'd have to say about where our nation is at right now...Betty and Ellen Degenerous, Natalie Portman~ my favorite actress :)

5. What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day? The hardest part of my day is leaving for work, because my puppy knows from the moment I put on my work shoes that I'm leaving him. The sadness in his eyes just breaks my heart. Sooo, it probably goes without saying that the best part of my day is returning to him! It's tied with seeing my love Michelle and spending time with her~ The best greeting after work is when they're both awaiting my arrival :)

Arden "Figuring Out Who I Am And Who I Want To Be"

2009-10-31T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: arden

Age: 48.5

Sign: cancer

I grew up in: monkeytown alabanana

I currently live in: tallahassee florida... a vast improvement

Occupation: right now? space planner... later? who knows...

You can find me: in motion

You will never find me: saying never

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: npr... not quite a charity... but they do need money

1.)What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day?

figuring out who i am...

figuring out who i want to be...

2.)What would you want to change about yourself?

where to begin...

i'd like to acquire an innate talent for balance...

yeah

that

3.)What do you want to do before you die?

be happy

a lot

4.)What are you most proud of?

20 years of sobriety

5.)What is your most prized possession?

my integrity

Eric "Perfection Is Not A Humanistic Trait"

2009-10-30T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Eric
Age: 25
Sign: Cancer
Occupation: I currently attend MSU, serve in the National Guard, and labor for DCI Contracting.
I grew up in: Charlotte Michigan a.k.a. Chartucky or C-Town
I currently live in: Lansing Michigan but will be moving to my home state of Texas in a few short weeks. Each move appears to be a better step in the right direction.
You can find me: On a boat fishing, in the woods hunting, at a concert, at a club flailing my body like white people do, in my yard playing horshoes, or in the house relaxing.
You will never find me: Wishing to be in somebody else's shoes, the path I have traveled to get here is the one I am supposed to be on and learn from.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Big Brothers Big Sisters, I have a few friends who have sponsored a little brother. Last year I went sledding with my friend Chris and his little brother; it was good times. It would be nice to sponsor a little bro, buy him junk food, and challenge him to a mighty game of guitar hero. There were times when I was younger when I wish somebody would have gotten me out of the home environment for a few hours.

The website is located at http://www.bbbs.org/site/c.diJKKYPLJvH/b.1539751/k.BDB6/Home.htm

1.) Who or what inspires you? My true inspiration in life right now is to become more spiritual and to accept what the world has to offer. I'm sort of inspired by the thought of owning a store which sells jerky processing equipment, but it seems a bit grandiose for the time being.

2.) What is difficult for you? Many things are difficult for me, isn't thats why its called life. I am truly thankful for my friends and family. They are the ones who listen when I need somebody to talk to and give me guidance when I don't have the answers. The most current difficult thing for me is leaving my comfort zone in Michigan and moving to Texas. Not only will I leave family and friends behind, but I will leave behind all my good hunting/fishing spots.

3.) What is your biggest regret? I try to think I live without regrets or rather that I have accepted my past, but I do regret to some degree that I never wrestled in college.

4.) What are you most proud of? I am most proud of my ability to take responsibility for my actions. I comprehend that perfection is not a humanistic trait, therefore, the best thing I can do is admit it when I am wrong and try to make things right.

5.) What do you want to do before you die? I don't mean to be boring, but I would be nice to raise a healthy family and have children that think of me as a true friend. Plus, I'd like to win the lottery and go base jumping; not in that particular order.

Alicia "Life Isn't About Material Things"

2009-10-29T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Alicia
Age: 31
Sign: Capricorn
I grew up in: Centerville, Ohio
I currently live in: Centerville, Ohio
Occupation: Fitness Instructor &
Tutor
You can find me: where there is music
You will never find me: tight rope walking
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www. standup2cancer. org and www. aspca. org

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? My dog, goal of writing, dream of finishing a screenplay.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? The death of my dad taught me life isn't about material things but the connections you make with people while you're here.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? Not to be so shy.

4.) What do you want to do before you die? Sell a screenplay, travel, drive an Indy car, learn a choreographed dance from Wade Robson, sing with Gwen Stefani, and play the guitar.

5.) What is your most prized possession? family, friends, dog and my music collection.

Andrea "My Grandmother Is My Hero"

2009-10-28T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: My name is Andrea
Age: Ain't nothin' but a numba. I'm 43.
Sign: Capricorn. We rule the planet!!!!
I grew up in: Bakersfield, CA. The Nashville of the west and very conservative. I left as soon as I could...
I currently live in: West Hollywood, CA
Occupation: Was an Associate Media Director at an advertising agency, but was laid off due to the economy. Now I'm relaxing and seeing where the wind blows me next.
You can find me: Traveling. If you can catch me...
You will never find me: At the republican convention, a conservative church or a chocolate factory (can't stand the taste or smell of chocolate, but if it was Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory, that would be a different story... Fizzy lifting drinks??? I'm so in...)
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: AIDS research will always be close to my heart. I've lost over 40 friends over the last 20 years - all of my boys are gone. Also animal rescue. mollysmuttsandmeows.org

1.) Who or what Inspires you? Travel. I want to see the entire world with my own eyes.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I'd have my breasts removed and I'd grow a couple of inches...

3.) What is your most prized possession? Her name was Daisy. The sweetest and best dog on the planet. I suppose she possessed me, though. Wonderful girl. I miss her.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My Grandmother is my hero. She was a BAD ASS. Her husband left her with two infants and her mother to take care of in the 1940's. And she did it, man. I have her Sheriffs badge tattooed on my back. She was strong, funny and the EPITOME of cool.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? As the lesbian Valentino. Yet again, I'm kidding. Seriously. As a compassionate, funny, BAD ASS who was the epitome of whatever. Oh, and the best hugger on the planet.

Jennifer "Dog Trainer, Wolf Handler"

2009-10-27T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Jennifer
Age:34
Sign:Gemini
I grew up in:The Outdoors
I currently live in:The mountains above Boulder, Colorado
Occupation:Dog Trainer, Wolf Handler, Animal Behavior Expert, Conservationist, Researcher, Inventor of new approaches and ideas to work with animals...
You can find me:Somewhere in the western United States
You will never find me:Without My Dogs
Your website or Charity you are passionate about:www.jmdogtraining.com

1.) Who or what Inspires you? My inspiration comes from nature, ecology and animals.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? the fact that I am such a loner at times.

3.) What is your most prized possession? My Jeep

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My parents. They both grew up very poor and became very successful. My Mom influenced and taught me so much about animals at a young age and my father has taught me many things about business. I have great respect for them and am grateful to have them in my life.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? I hope I will be remembered as someone who made a difference. I do what I do because of my four legged friends- if I can only give to them half of what they have given to me, I will feel successful.

Colleen "Hairstylist & Future Animal Rescuer"

2009-10-26T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Colleen
Age:25
Sign:Capricorn
I grew up in: All over Orange County
I currently live in: Seal Beach
Occupation: Hairstylist
You can find me: At home, at the salon, or walking down main st. seal beach with my husband and a coffee in my hand.
You will never find me: hunting animals
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: my website (myspace)

and my husband's website (go check it out!) www.craignorrisphoto.com

1.) What is your lifelong dream?
To live in a beautiful home on the beach, have a couple of little ones, own successful businesses, and be able to do what we want!!!

2.) What are you passionate about?
I'd love to rescue animals in need of good homes, maybe someday when I have the space, time, and money!!

3.) How do you measure success?
Achieving all of my goals I set for myself.

4.) What has been your greatest achievement?
Marrying not just a great guy but my best friend and being a hairstylist which is a great achievement because I am doing something I enjoy and love!

5.) Is there something you would do differently if you could go back in time?
I would have never used credit cards to pay for things, I would have done the sensible thing and payed cash or saved up!!! I should have listened to my parents...

Kari "Tattoo Artist/Shirt Designer"

2009-10-25T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Kari
Age:48
Sign:cancer
I grew up in:Lots of houses and apts starting in the city of Bloomington , MN
I currently live in:A cute little house in Long Beach , CA
Occupation:Tattoo Artist/Shirt Designer...
You can find me:Next to my wife...enjoying a glass of wine...
You will never find me:Living in a cold place again...swimming in a cold place or at the front of confrintation.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.outerlimitstattoo.com and I love the SPCA

1.)What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? The thought of being debt free and living in the lush tropical forest, beach out the window, with the woman I love, Sherman and Lily running around and friends and family... coming to visit all the time!

2.)What life experience has strengthened you the most? My Divorce. And a thing called life it self.

3.)What would you want to change about yourself? My ability to allow myself to change... to help others more and to be a stronger person within.

4.)Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? The were forests near, and fights within.. blue lakes near by and grey carpet. A loving sister and a many others I didnt get to know well enough. I had a large family spread way to far apart, moved a lot as I remember ... and always longed to have a place. Still searching...

5.)What is your most prized possession? The love I receive from others. If its a thing...I dont relly fall attached to to much, but I would say my tattoo shops and my home.

Annie "A Nice Person"

2009-10-24T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Annie
Age:48
Sign:cancer
I grew up in:I lived in a lot of places as my dad was in the Navy..Okinawa, Virginia, Monterey,
I currently live in:Ventura
You can find me:if you look
You will never find me:if you don't look
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: heifer international and www.chlg.org

1.)What is your dream job?
I could list a ton...actress, vet, clown, owner of my own restruant, author, but in fact the job I do now is really my dream job..I am a teacher..I shift between regular education and special education and I love both. I guess my real dream would be to be a great teacher right up to my last day of teaching.

2.)What are you most proud of?
I like to think that I am a good mom, but you never really know how much of how your kids turn out is you or them, so I guess the thing I am most proud of is the fact that basically I am a nice person. I can't think of a time when I ever went out of my way to be mean to anyone.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?
Time...When I think of the times I took rather then gave, the times I pouted rather then enjoyed, the times I was angry rather then understanding, the times I wasted rather then used to their fullest...I am trying my hardest to spend the rest of my time in the best ways possible.

4.)Who would you like to meet?
If I could meet someone from the past it would be Annie Sullivan...she was Helen Keller's teacher. If I could meet someone from the present it would be the person reading this who is wearing a green shirt. Yes, that's right you, I see you there behind your computer screen. You can't hide from me.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day?
I work in a middle class community, and for the most part because I work with kids my day is filled with the joy of watching kids learn and explore in the humorous innocent ways of childhood. In many ways it is like being in a bubble. Then when I get home and I turn on the news or pick up the paper I am reminded of the pain and sorrow many people faced during the day, and at times it can make me sad. What is the best part of your day?
My kids saying "Mom, I'm home."

Hank "Waiting for Something to Happen"

2009-10-23T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Hank
Age: 50. That's right, 50.
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: The San Fernando Valley
I currently live in: Topanga, Ca
Occupation: Marketing Communications
You can find me: On my motorcycle
You will never find me: In a mall
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: advrider.com

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? My children

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Habit for Humanity missions to Kyrgyzstan an India.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? The feeling that I'm always waiting for something to happen.

4.) Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? Farm fields and ranches that became sub-divisions and shopping malls. I remember the freedom to wander the fields when I was young and to eat raw sweet corn off the stalk. That may have been stealing, right?

5.) What is your most prized possession? My integrity. Everything else is just stuff.

Vicki "Looking For The Good"

2009-10-22T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Vicki
Age: 40
Sign: Gemini
I grew up in: Alaska
I currently live in: oregon
You can find me: Outdoors at all times of the day or evening
You will never find me: voting republican
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: PETA

1.)Who or what inspires you?

I guess knowing right from wrong can be inspirational. I am always looking for the good in someone and just a simple smile or genuine gesture can inspire me to keep on believing...hoping...that if we could be a little nicer, a little more nurturing and a little more helpful that it would be enough to sustain a positive environment for all of us to want to be or become better people.

2.)What are you most proud of?

From a personal standpoint, I would say the fact that I finally get it. I finally get how people should be treated, especially the ones you love. How important life is...family and friends. How I should treat myself. Took me long enough! The second thing would be my sisters becoming mothers. They have given me 3 wonderful nephews that have taught me so much over the years. When we were kids running around with pigtails and dirty facces, I never could of imagined them growing up into beautiful women and becoming mothers. They are awesome.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?

I lost the privilege of staying in the lives of two children I dearly loved. My heart has been broken every since.

4.)Who would you like to meet?

My grandfather. I have heard that he believed in equality back when it was not really a cool thought to some. He was a mayor of a small town and a fire chief. He passed away when I was 7. Unfortunately, I lived in Alaska and he lived in Oregon...I never knew him but have always been drawn to him in some way. Would love to have a conversation with him.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?
I don't know if I really have a "hard" part to my day, aside from deciding what shirt to throw on. As far as the best part of my day...that does vary. Talking with friends and family and laughing keeps me smiling most times all day. I finish that off with a hot bath and a good movie on TV.

Andrea "I love who I am"

2009-10-21T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Andrea
Age: 44 yrs
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: Orange County, CA
I currently live in: Tustin Ranch, CA
Occupation : Exercise Physiologist
You can find me: at the gym or running outdoors...........
You will never find me: eating raw fish

Your website or Charity you are passionate about : Crohns & Colitis Foundation of America (www.ccfa.org)

1.) What ( person, goal, dream ) gets you out of bed each day?
The relationships I share with my close friends and family get me out of bed everyday. I have an amazing group of people in my life that I love and who love me back. The daily interaction, love, support, and experiences I share with these individuals give my life meaning and a huge amount of joy, happiness and peace.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most?
Coming out as a gay woman in my late 20's. I had felt "different" through most of my formative years and wasn't able to fully recognize and accept my sexuality. Societal pressure, growing up Catholic, and feeling like I would disappoint my God and my family all influenced my behavior and decision to repress my feelings and this piece of myself. As a result, I was unfulfilled, unhappy and didn't really know who I was. In college I met and eventually married a wonderful, amazing man. I thought I could change my feelings for women and build a successful marriage. Over time, with an extensive amount of prayer and therapy, I realized I wasn't going to change. As incredibly tough as it was to come out to my husband at the time and leave the marriage, it was the beginning of a new life for me. Since this time I have evolved into a secure, happy, confident woman who embraces her sexuality and loves life. I'm also happy to say that my ex-husband, his 2nd wife and their children are still in my life. I feel extremely blessed.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? not a thing...I love who I am faults, imperfections and all.

4.) What has been your greatest achievement? Building a successful, enjoyable career in the corporate fitness field. I'm one of the lucky few that has been blessed with a good, full-time career in the fitness field. I love coming to work each day, working with amazing staff and members, and being able to make a difference in other people's lives.

5.) What is your most prized possession ?
My cat, Samuel. He is the first pet I've owned strictly by myself. My brother found him 6 years ago as a 3 month old stray kitten. I've had him ever since. We share a very strong bond and I love him tremendously.

Stew "I Have Never Given Up"

2009-10-20T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Stew
Age: 34
Sign: Pisces
I grew up in: Delaware, Ohio
I currently live in: Los Angeles
Occupation: Writer, Filmmaker
You can find me: running, writing, working, playing
You will never find me: waiting for something to happen
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://jstew.net is my website, http://forbetterlife.org blows me away

1.) Who or what inspires you? I am inspired by great writing, film, music, art, kindness, courage, passion, and - most of all - my wife.

2.) What are you most proud of? I am proud that even through times of difficulty, confusion, and despair, I have never given up on the pursuit of my dreams.

3.) What has been your greatest loss in life? My father.

4.) Who would you like to meet? I love meeting anyone who has something to teach or share with me.

5.) What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day? The hardest part of my day is beating down the urge to procrastinate - succeeding in doing so is the best, right next to having my wife curl up beside me at the end of it.

Cole "Looking Over Fresh Peppers"

2009-10-19T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: cole
Age: 30 Baby, do i not look it?
Sign: that half-horse guy
I grew up in: WyMon- Wy and Mt
I currently live in: wyo, don't make fun...all my shit is paid for ;-)
Occupation: healthcare destruction
You can find me: looking over fresh peppers, total foodie
You will never find me: waxing some dude's dolphin
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: i rode that little yellow bus growing-up kinda charity

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? cleaning the bathroom, fricken place must be spotless!

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? i'm enchanted by women who can yodle

3.) What do you want to do before you die? make love to the hottie from austin until paris hilton passes her GED...Blessed Eternity!

4.) What are you most proud of? that my hooters don't swing low

5.) What is your most prized possession? travel too much to care about a montana turd bird.

Susann "A 3 Time Cancer Survivor"

2009-10-18T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Susann
Age:56
Sign:Leo
I grew up in:Wichita, KS
I currently live in: Little Rock, AR
Occupation: retired after 31 yrs. with AT&T
You can find me: usually outside unless it is cold
You will never find me: snow skiing
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www. castingforrecovery. org

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day?
The excitement and promise of a new day; my dogs and cats.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Being a 3-time cancer survivor.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? I would like to lose a few more pounds, but overall, I am happy with my life and know that I am lucky and thankful to be where I am now.

4.) What do you want to do before you die? Go to Australia and New Zealand.

5.) What is your most prized possession? My health.

Mary "The Best Girlfriend In The World"

2009-10-17T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Mary
I grew up in: a small town, in the middle of a cornfield. Where the community would lead you to believe, that they were loving and supportive. That was very deceptive. Really the only things that mattered there were who your parents were, who your friends were and how much trouble you or anyone related to you had ever gotten into. In short, I grew up in a small minded small town.
I currently live in: Chatham, IL. A small town, with new faces and open minds. An hour from the small minded small town.
Occupation: Technically, I am a Nail Tech. But mostly, I am super single mom and the best girlfriend in the world.
You can find me: in lots of places. There are at least 6 months out of the year that I travel quite often with my boyfriend. When I am not traveling I am usually at home working, volunteering at the kids schools, attending the kids sporting events and just in general running around like a chicken with my head cut off!
You will never find me: Never say Never!
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: I spend too much time on MySpace as far as websites go. I need to find a charity that I am passionate about, maybe that is what I am missing!

1.) Do you love what you do? Why? Some days I love what I do. Others, not so much! But all in all I refuse to do anything that is not going to produce the end results that I want. If I am not going to be happy about it or proud in the end, I don’t need to do it!

2.) What are you most proud of? I have 4 children ages 16, 9, 7 and 4. They are proof that I have done something right. They are intelligent, adventurous and thoughtful people. They make each day worthwhile and purposeful.

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? My second divorce has been the most strengthening and character building experience of my life. The process included me leaving the area I grew up in and starting over, fresh and new. I started over with very little and on my own completely for the first time in my life. Waking up every day and seeing these little faces looking at me and counting on me alone was life changing. During the whole process there was no child support or emotional support from their father or my family. I was truly on my own. I made it. The divorce took 3 years and was final on December 1, 2008. To this day I have excelled and live a life better and fuller than most people that I know and my family that disowned me.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My boyfriend Bobby has been the most influential person in my life. He has been a part of my life for almost 2 and half years. He has led me out of my darkest times and into my most successful. He inspires me. His is a story of teen parent, high school dropout, living in a trailer turned self made very successful business man. He came from nothing and fulfilled more than his dreams. He is the American Dream personified. He and I filled every void in our already full lives with each other. The man completes me and I complete him. I found my partner and the love of my life.

5.) Describe your perfect day
I have lived so many perfect days over the last year and for some reason cannot come up with just one answer for this. How silly is that? I think we spend so much of our time as parents, friends, lovers and spouses making sure that everyone else’s day is perfect that we forget what our perfect day is. Maybe the perfect day is the day that we figure out what our perfect day would be…

Kimberly "We Are Each The Sum Of Our Experiences"

2009-10-16T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Kimberly
Age: 40
Sign: Leo
I grew up in: San Diego, CA
I currently live in: Big Island, Hawaii -- and wherever I happen to be traveling and doing my thing...
Occupation: writer, sociologist, storyteller -- change artist!
You can find me: performing poetry and stories, teaching classes, facilitating revelation, sitting on an airplane, floating in the sea, strolling in the jungle, practicing yoga, living well
You will never find me: complaining that I don't have a blessed life
Your Website: www.kimberlydark.com

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day?
Early on, in my work as a performer and facilitator, I was doing an interactive lecture on violence against women in the media and the audience (a young student audience who was forced to attend my talk) became hostile regarding the subject. (Yes, this sometimes happens before I've even taken the stage.) They were chanting "femi-nazi" at the back of the room and none of the school officials were making a move to quiet or correct the anger. A young woman in the front row, who seemed eager to hear me, began crying quietly and folder herself up in her chair, like she wanted to disappear. Her eyes were pleading with me to do something because clearly, she couldn't. In that context, she felt threatened and alone. What motivates me is a belief that individual brilliance, action and justice is either thwarted or encouraged by the systems in which we live. I want a world in which it's easier for people to behave with decency and compassion. And I think it's possible to create those systems, that world. I want that young woman to feel empowered to give her gifts in the world. We're all missing out if she doesn't.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most?
All of them. It would be difficult to say that one event, or one person has influenced me above all others. I think we are each the sum of our experiences. We are each in the process of becoming who we are.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself?
Just keep learning, keep growing, keep loving.

4.) Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you?
San Diego is a desert -- a lot of succulent plants -- jade and aloe. I lived near the sea and still never want to be far from it. I don't think I learned a true connection to earth and sea and sky until I moved to Hawaii, however. I am so grateful to the 'aina here and my kumus, for helping me remember my connection -- and responsibility -- to the earth.

5.) What is your most prized possession?

Love

Kristy "Honest Cowgirl"

2009-10-15T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Kristy
Age:31
Sign:Gemini
I grew up in:Jupiter, FL
I currently live in:San Diego, CA, Mexico
Occupation:Surfer
You can find me:At the beach
You will never find me: Somewhere REALLY, REALLY COLD!
Your website or Charity you are passionate about:wildcoast.org

1.) Who or what Inspires you? People. I find inspiration in different people I know or meet everyday.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I would like to be a little taller, that would be nice!

3.) What is your most prized possession? I don't really have a prized possession. But I do have many possessions I like a lot like my surfboards, my property in Mexico, and some jewelry. But I try not to get too attached to material possessions, but that is hard to do!!

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My parents. They are just awesome people. They are good, fun, hardworking, all the qualities I hope one day I will posses.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? A positor (a positive person!) fun, happy, honest cowgirl!

Bonnie "Living A Good Life"

2009-10-14T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Bonnie
Age: 21 1/2
Sign: Pieces
I grew up in: Hong Kong until I was 11.
I currently live in: Newton, MA
Occupation: Office Administrator, Web Site Designer, Babysitter
You can find me: in front of a computer
You will never find me: not working
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: I don't have one right now

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day?

Living a good life. Working toward getting my own place to live. Making money. I would like to eventually traveling and helping people in some way.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most?

Seeing my mother struggle so hard to make my life better. We moved to the US 11 years ago and the town we live in has one of the best school systems in the state.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself?

My height, I"m 5'2", I would like to be able to reach things on the top shelf. I would also like to stop biting my nails.

4.) What do you want to do before you die?

I want to be my own boss. I have a side business doing web page design. I want to own my own home, get married, own a few tortoises in the backyard.
I would also like to swim with dolphins one day.

5.) What is your most prized possession?

My first car. I worked two jobs to pay it off.

Ellis "You Will Never Find Me On A Reality Show"

2009-10-13T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Ellis
Age: 32
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: Texas
I currently live in: Minneapolis, MN
Occupation: performing songwriter
You can find me: playing guitar or reading a good book with coffee
You will never find me: on a reality tv show
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.ellis-music.com

1.)Who or what inspires you?

Right now, Ajahn Sumedho (a buddhist monk who teaches), my 4 year old niece, and my partner all inspire me.

2.)What are you most proud of?

I rode my bicycle from Minneapolis to Chicago one year for the Twin Cities Aids Ride. I felt very proud completing that ride!

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?

I'm fortunate to say I don't know about that one. It must mean that I haven't had a great loss yet.

4.)Who would you like to meet?

The Buddha, Lincoln, and Joni Mitchell :-)!!

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?

Hardest: Every morning I wake up and feel the weight of the world on my shoulders.
Best: Then I remember that it's not all mine!!

Ernest "Meeting Life On My Own Terms"

2009-10-12T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Ernest
Age: 35
Sign: Warning: driver makes wide left turns (or Cancer)
Occupation: Computer nerd/amateur photographer
I grew up in: in the middle of nowhere in northern Wisconsin
I currently live in: St. Louis, MO
You can find me: carrying a camera and without a lot of effort - I'm 6'4", so I don't exactly blend into any crowd not composed primarily of basketball players.
You will never find me: juggling chainsaws. Or in a crowd composed primarily of basketball players.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: blog. myspace. com/villerramone is my blog. I'm passionate about batcon. org and http://locksoflove. org/ anyone getting an at all significant haircut in North America should donate to them. They make wigs for bald kids; how cool is that?

1.) Who or what inspires you?
My folks, Sir Winston Churchill, teachers, people who do the right thing when it isn't the easy thing. Oh, and good music. Dylan's 'You're a Big Girl Now' convinces me that our coming down out of the trees was the right move.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself?
I wouldn't mind being independently wealthy. Or a little taller. Or taller *and* independently wealthy. Though not if it involves playing basketball. Unless it also involves becoming a lot more coördinated.

3.) How would your friends describe you?
Odd, smart, funny, tall, ironic.

4.) What are you most proud of?
That I've managed to live a life reasonably free of harm to others and have been able to meet life on my own terms. And my photography.

5.) What do you want to do before you die?
See the sun rise over the pyramids, see Victoria Falls, go to Australia and meet my nephew, see Israel, pet a Zorse (zebra/horse hybrid), eat Gamelost cheese.

John "Health Is All I Care To Possess"

2009-10-11T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:John
Sign:Taurus
Age:52
Occupied in text, audio, video, and live performance communications\entertainment
I grew up in the US. My father was a Naval Aviator, we moved all over.
I currently live in Baja California Norte, Mexico and Escondido, California.

I surf over a hundred times a year. Ride my bike a thousand or so on the hard sand or behind the retired aviator. I work when I have to. I’m in the garden more and sprucing up my aesthetic because I have a female partner now.

I can’t ascribe “never” to anywhere I might be.

I love my own blog, there, I said it.

I go to bed early and always wake in the dark. The dark of morning is my favorite time. Anything can happen today! My waking thoughts are diverse as the dreams that proceed them. I think about coffee the moment my feet hit the floor.

I hope I know God, it seems like I do, but I basically just pretend it’s true but it doesn’t seem like make believe to me. So He is my Captain (and lover). I try to do as He leads by seeing miracles as markers.

I forget past failure, and press forward (or sideways)

Joy and hope are success

Health is all I care to possess.

Brett "Passionate about Photography"

2009-10-10T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Brett
Age: 28
Sign: Sagittarius
I grew up in: Paradise, CA
I currently live in: San Diego
You can find me: getawayimagery.blogspot.com or http://www.myspace.com/photog69
You will never find me: Shopping for clothes

1.)What are you passionate about? I have been taking pictures for about 5 years. I have been traveling the world photographing a wide variety of outdoor and adventure based stories. My photography focus is somewhat similar to me. I’m passionate about photography and it’s something that my life revolves around. I tend to photograph people that pursue their own passions.

2.)What is your lifelong dream? I hope I can continue to explore and meet new people. The search is what makes this type of work so addicting. The rewards are priceless. It’s hard to explain.

3.) How do you measure success? I think that success is measured on improvement. If you’re making progress every day then you are growing as a person. Open minds are more willing to learn.

4.)What is your biggest concern in America today? I’m not concerned but I’m surprised that people are scared to do what they really want to do in life. You only go around once. You should take advantage of it.

5.)Who or what inspires you? I am inspired by the people and places I photograph. Anything I take a picture of is obvious proof that it has peaked my interest. The interaction with the subject behind each photo sometimes has more meaning than the picture itself.

Mark "Soul Shifter"

2009-10-09T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Mark

Age: 50

Sign: Taurus

I grew up in: Phoenix, Arizona

I currently live in: Scottsdale, Arizona

You can find me in deep discussion with interesting people, writing, speaking to groups and signing books, occasionally playing guitar, golfing, working out, and/or walking in the desert.

You will never find me...putting up a false front.

My website: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://www.soulshiftbook.com

Alternate site address: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://www.drrichardireland.com

I just started my dream job—I am now an author and a speaker. I still work a "day job", which pays the bills, but in time who knows where this whole writing and speaking thing may lead...

I am most proud of my son Steven who lost his brother and took the pain from that event to refine himself as a person. He has grown into a wonderful, caring, respectful, and wise young man at the ripe age of 25.

Without question, my greatest loss in life was the passing of my youngest son, Brandon, in January, 2004. But that tragedy also served as a catalyst that pushed me in a direction that I would not have previously anticipated. My pain drove me to search for answers to deep questions about life, death, and life after death.

My father, Dr. Richard Ireland, was a prominent psychic back in the 60's through the 80's and he counseled celebrities like Mae West. After Brandon's passing, I recalled my father's amazing gift, which I'd witnessed countless times, finding both comfort and intrigue. This led me on a personal exploration to seek out answers to these deeper questions about our existence.

My journalistic account of this search culimnated in a book called, SOUL SHIFT, released on July 15, 2008. In SOUL SHIFT I share personal experiences involving paranormal events, as well as other compelling evidence derived from meetings with top mediums such as Allison Dubois. My findings support the hypothesis that we are more than our bodies and that personality and consciousness survive physical death...brain and mind are not the same thing.

I've also begun speaking to others who've lost loved ones—especially those who have lost children—helping them learn positive ways to cope with grief, so they can carry on and not give up on life.

Who I'd most like to meet: If time were not an issue, I'd most like to meet Jesus, Buddha, Gandhi, Joan of Arc, Plato, Thomas Aquinas, Sir Isaac Newton, and Albert Einstein. In today's world, I'd like to meet the Dalai Lama, Deepak Chopra, and Wayne Dyer.

It has been most difficult for me to share the type of information I am now disseminating, because I feared ridicule. I have largely overcome this fear, because I realize the importance of this effort far outweighs any concerns tied to ego preservation. This information must not be suppressed, because it allows people to see past their pain, enabling them to carry on with full, rich lives, sharing their gifts with the world.

Dian "I want to get better"

2009-10-08T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Dian
Age: 33
Sign: Gemini (cusp of Cancer)
I grew up in: Southern CA (The Valley...North Hollywood, Canoga Park, Van Nuys, Tarzana)
I currently live in: Long Beach
Occupation: Writer
You can find me: in numerous wine and beer tasting rooms across the nation, come 2009
You will never find me: hurting an animal
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: HRC--the idea that we're all human and all equal is fascinating to me, and I surely can't wait until those ideas are fully realized...what a great idea to put forth the energy into making happen

1.)What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? The idea that I get to choose the best parts of each of my parents and try to make the best of myself using those parts.

2.)What life experience has strengthened you the most? My mother's death when I was 16. I realized that if I could get through that, I could get through anything.

3.)What would you want to change about yourself? There are a lot of things I've worked through regretting, and it's all let me here--to a place where I no longer regret those things. I want to get better. Be a better person. Constantly grow and change and learn. And who knows what that will be, who I'll be or where that will lead? So I don't know what I would change. I just know that I will.

4.)Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? The house I grew up in was a 2-br house on a 5,000 square foot lot at the corner of a tiny street and an alley way in North Hollywood. My mother had spider plants and ivy and irises and creeping charlies, among hundreds of other plants in the back yard. We had a dog run that ran the length of the house just outside the back door, with a gated fence that one of the four dogs was constantly jumping over. 2 Dobermans, a German Shepherd, and a pint sized mutt with scruffy blond hair who I chose to name Shuzbutt. I lived there for 8 years and more than the landscape of the house and its surroundings (the open prickly-wheat-like stalk field behind the house; the potholed alley way between the field and our house; and the mis-matched residential front yards of green-grass-growers and car-in-the-front-lawners), what affected me the most was how we lived there. Mom had friends over often; we had dinner at the table most nights; we talked to our neighbors and sunbathed with them in the front yard during the summer; I walked to school every morning and home every afternoon by myself; I used the key around my neck to get in the house; I made my own dinner and sat at the table when my mother didn't make it home from work by the time I was hungry; I did my homework before I played; I joked and laughed when I thought it would make someone like me or notice me; my mother encouraged this behavior; my mother stayed home with me when I was sick and could always tell when I was faking; and my mother said "I love you" every night when she tucked me into bed. I remember wishing I had a tree for a tree-house when I was a kid, but that was just to have someplace to escape to when I was lonely. I didn't dwell on it much, but if anything, the lack of a big tree just for me in my landscape made me a little bit lonelier than I thought I might have been if I'd had it.

5.) What is your most prized possession? The flag I received from the Naval officer with tears in his eyes at my father's funeral. Until that moment I didn't understand what the military meant to my father. But I saw it in that 20-something officer's eyes when he handed me that flag.

Toni "My Daughters Are My Rock"

2009-10-07T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Toni
Age: 37
Sign: Scorpio
Occupation: Mommy
I grew up in: Whittier, CA
I currently live in: The High Desert, CA
You can find me: At home with my girls. Volunteering. Hanging with my lifesavers--The Schottelkorbs
You will never find me: Sitting in judgement. That is not my place
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Right now--Changing California's Laws regarding vehicular manslaughter

1.) What are you most proud of? My daughters. Their father was killed in a motorcycle accident in April, 2008. They have had to confront a number of fears that no child should ever have to think about. They are rising above those fears and are learning that each day is a gift. They know first hand that tomorrow may never come. My daughters are my rock. If only everyone had a child's faith. They are truly an inspiration not only to me, but to all those that have traveled this road thus far with us!

2.) Who or what inspires you? Again--My daughters. Their ability to move forward and look toward the future is giving me some faith that in spite of tragedy and death, one's goals can still be reached. They have had to re-teach me that it is still okay to dream, to smile and to laugh.

3.) How would you like to be remembered? As a good mom. I am doing my best to help my daughters through their grief and mourning. Since, I have never experienced this before, I am not quite familiar with "death protocol." I am hoping that I will be remembered as a mom they could talk to about anything and everything. I want them to know and everyone to know that I love my girls with all my being and all that I am. They are the reasons I am still here!

4.) What do you want to do before you die? Grow old. I want to see my daughters grown, possibly married with children. I want them to be happy no matter what road they may follow. I wouldn't mind being happy again oneday, too.

5.) What is your most prized possession? That would mean something material, I assume? I guess I would say, my home. My husband worked his ass off to provide this house for us--his family. In an ironic way--even though he no longer lives here on Earth with his children and me--he is still providing. I want to make sure our daughters always have a place to call "Home."

Natalie "I Want To Make A Difference"

2009-10-06T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Natalie
Age: 30
Sign: Gemini
I grew up in: Bakersfield, CA
I currently live in: Orange, CA
You can find me: In nature
You will never find me: Gnawing on chicken
Favorite Charity: Heifer International

1.)What has been the most life altering experience for you?
My most life altering experience has been my recent trip to Tanzania. I think that I have always had a good appreciation for life. I also knew that I had been blessed with amazing opportunities and support to get where I am today. In Tanzania, I worked with people with HIV/AIDS and children with disabilities. I saw things that I never imagined could still be happening in 2008. I saw people dying in front of me. I witnessed people literally starving to death and there was nothing I could do about it. For the first time in my life, I felt helpless and hopeless. The trip really made me realize how lucky I truly am simply to have been born in the time, place and family that I was born into. Since I have been back, I am trying to figure out where I fit in this world and how I can make a difference locally and globally.

2.)How do you measure success?
I measure success by my friends and family. I believe that the company that you keep tells a lot about you as a person. I am blessed with amazing friends and family. They are all remarkable people in their own right.

3.)What is your most prized possession?
To be honest, I think I could have all of my possessions taken away and be ok with it. I would much rather have my memories than any physical item. But if I had to choose something, I would say it is my grandmother’s class ring. My grandmother and I graduated exactly 50 years apart from the same high school. Growing up, I was never really close to my grandmother. I never really felt accepted by her. I was never girly enough, I never had a boyfriend, never interested in crafty stuff, blah blah blah…When she gave it to me, I finally felt that she was proud of me and that we had some kind of connection.

4.)Who or what inspires you?
I work with some of the most physically disabled children in the county. The children and families that I work with inspire me everyday. Seeing their strength and determination to beat the odds and prove the doctors and therapists (such as myself) wrong is truly exciting. One of the most inspiring stories that I have witnessed is of a three your old little girl. Before I met this little girl, I read her chart. As I read the history of this three-year-old baby, I cried, and vomited. This little girl was horrifically abused. At the age of three, she had every awful, unspeakable thing you could EVER possibly imagine done to her. It was truly a miracle that she was even alive. When I met her, she was not able to use the right side of her body, not able to walk, speak, or eat. For the first few months I work with her I cried after almost every session. During the first year that I worked with her, she took her first steps, she had her G-tube removed, she started speaking in multiple word sentences. She truly is amazing and inspirational. The most amazing part of her story is although she survived the worst thing that could ever be done to a human being, she has a smile on her face every single day. She is my hero and inspiration.

5.)What is your dream job?
National Park Ranger. How awesome would to be to wake up and get to be in and protect mother nature?

Chi "Hip Hop, Club Dance, Salsa Instructor"

2009-10-05T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name:Chi (Chi-hoe by birth)
Age:28
Sign:Leo
I grew up in: Potomac Maryland
I currently live in: San Diego CA
Occupation:Hip Hop, Club Dance, Salsa Instructor
You can find me: Online via AIM SN: CatchABeat , myspace.com/chihoe and facebook. In reality at the dance studio, with friends, coffee shops, Hip Hop and Salsa Night Clubs worldwide, UCSD.
You will never find me: In a suit in an office .
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: My personal site and teaching sites www.ClubDanceLessons.Com, www.youtube.com/ClubDanceLessons

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? Becoming a better person, and helping others to gain confidence in themselves.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? Physically, I'd get a hair transplant and have perfect skin.. Other than that my goals this year are to improve my FOCUS, Organization, and work harder at everything I do.

3.) What do you want to do before you die? Have children and grandchildren.

4.) What are you most proud of? My dance accomplishments, particularly my involvement with my old crews CADC and Kaba Modern, having 3.5 million views on my instructional videos online, going on tour with the # 1 Asian Pop Artist Jay Chou, coming out with my own dance DVD.

5.) What is your most prized possession? I still have a Linus Blanket that really is just a cover to a blanket, it's been used to much it feels like silk. My friends and family like to make fun of it, but girls think it's cute.

Shawnee "Celebrity Personal Trainer"

2009-10-04T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Shawnee
Age: 27
Sign: Libra
I grew up in: Dallas, TX
I currently live in: California
Occupation: Celebrity Personal Trainer / TV Personality
You can find me: www.shawneeharkins.com
You will never find me: hmm, this is a good question.... I don't know.. boring answer, I'm sure..lol.... Oh wait, in a coffee shop, drinking coffee...I don't drink coffee..
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.shawneeharkins.com, www.drphil.com, www.hydraexecutives.com, www.shewired.com and www.discoversweet.com , these are all my current projects in TV and Media Entertainment...

1.) Do you love what you do? Why? I totally love what I do, because Health and Fitness is my true- calling in life. My life was literally spared, and my belief is...it was spared to help other's.. My passion is helping other's to achieve their personal health and fitness goals, and I know I am the girl to get them there, and I know that I can, because of my personal story... whom was told I would never walk again at the age of 18, when paralyzed from the neck down, etc...and I went onto become a Fire Fighter, and then a personal trainer...I'm doing exactly what I was given a second chance at life to do....

2.) What are you most proud of? Making my family proud of my accomplishments...on my own...

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? The fatal car accident that left me paralyzed from the neck down, flat lined 3 times, sustained significant brain injury, grand mal seizures, etc. (Btw, was hit by a Chevy Suburban while roller blading ) , and all this at the age of 18 in California, after I had moved from Texas on my own at the age of 17 to start my life and make my mark. This accident changed my life and molded me into the woman, and the person I am today.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Tanja Shank.

5.) What would you want to change about yourself? I would want to shut my mind off or it least down sometimes...it is constantly going...

Adriane "My Mother Was The Greatest Teacher In Life"

2009-10-03T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Adriane (aka Spooner)
Age: 45
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: Small Town, Illinois
I currently live in: Medium Sized Town, Illinois
You can find me: either quietly observing or being inappropriately sarcastic.
You will never find me: at WalMart
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: So many to choose from! I try to pick a different one every holiday season to donate to. This year's recipient is the Human Rights Campaign. Last year was Amnesty International. My extended family loves to donate to The Heifer Project in lieu of gifts. When I was 20, I volunteered at Planned Parenthood and continue to donate to them. They have such great outreach programs to teens. I recommend them highly for a realistic and informative sex ed class for teenagers.

1.)Who or what inspires you?

I am in awe by true respectful listeners. Good communicators are so rare, they can make you feel completely validated with an engaging conversation.

2.)What are you most proud of?

My first instinct is to say my children, but honestly I believe that my children carve their own path, I just clear the way for them.

In a few weeks, I will graduate with a Bachelorʼs Degree in Philosophy. As a single mom who works full-time, it feels like a huge accomplishment.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?

My mother died at the age of 64. She and I were very close and I miss her terribly. She was my greatest teacher in life. She lived fully, loved completely and died gracefully. I feel her with me everyday.

4.)Who would you like to meet?

Anytime I meet celebrities, I make a fool of myself gushing. Iʼve met some amazing friends online that I would to love to meet in person.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?

That depends on how well Iʼve planned. I love coming home from work and spending time with my two kids (even though they are teenagers) but sometimes I feel tired and overwhelmed by making dinner, getting the kids to their activities, etc. Lately the kids and I have been planning and making the meals together. Itʼs a great way to get us all talking and laughing together.

David "Lives in a Van"

2009-10-02T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: David
Age: 37
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: Polson, MT
I currently live in: San Francisco, CA
You can find me: www.livesinavan.com or your local Starbucks
You will never find me: at church.

1.) What are you most proud of?
I live life fearlessly. I have never been a victim of my circumstances. There are only challenges and I have never been afraid of accepting the challenge. I am not afraid of taking risks or questioning the common perception. As a result, my life has been an amazing series of great stories and unforgettable experiences.

2.) Who has been the most influential person in your life?
Jesus. Religion played a big part of growing up. My mom changed her religion when I was eight and Mom and Dad's disagreements on how the Bible should be interpreted resulted in a lot of conflict surrounding the life-or-death issue of salvation. I actually went into the full-time ministry after high school and studied the bible with children and adults for a number of years. The life and teachings of Jesus Christ had an indelible impact on my early life. After I observed (and fought) the coverup of a pedophile in the church, my studies lead me to the discovery of neuroscience and behavioral science. After studying the causes of both the most noble and most despicable aspects of human behavior; I was forced to rethink my assumptions about freewill, sin and many of the more common interpretations of scripture. Despite my more progressive thinking today, I cannot deny that Jesus influenced far more of my life than any other person living or dead.

3.)How do you measure success?
Success is the realization of a sustainable happiness for both yourself and others in your life. Everything else is either a distraction or simply a factor that helps or hinders the maintenance of happiness.

4.)What would your last meal be?
French toast, real maple syrup, bacon, eggs (over medium), a gooey raisin cinnamon roll and a Starbucks coffee.

5.)What do you want to do before you die?
Publish a book. Play the piano well. Complete a triathlon. Climb the highest mountain in every state of the U.S. Learn how to sing. Learn how to do the tango. Grow old with someone I'm madly in love with.

Stan "Sushi Addict"

2009-10-01T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Stan
Age:47
Sign: Aquarius
I grew up in: Lakewood, Ca
I currently live in: Long Beach, Ca
Occupation: Analyst Program/Project
You can find me: at my computer
You will never find me: at Ripples
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Cancer

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? Retirement in Idaho Falls

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? The Stroke
3.) What would you want to change about yourself? My hieght

4.) How do you want to be remembered? Sushi addict

5.) What is your most prized possession? My family

Kimmy "Being Free to Breathe"

2009-09-30T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Kim, Kimmy, Kimberley but mostly Kimmy
Age: 36 since Nov 7th
Sign: Scorpio
I grew up in: a bit of an orphan, mostly West Tennessee, just outside of Memphis
I currently live in: Vancouver, WA
Occupation: I am paid to be an Executive Assistant in a Management Firm, I am not paid to be a Mommy, a writer, a poet, a lyricst and a Plain Jane :-) (yet)
You can find me: hmmmm... listening to music, meditating, being genuinely happy
You will never find me: spending time being angry or in any way hating anyone or anything
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: legitimate foundations or organizations in place to promote safety for children who have been harmed/abused sexually or physically or emotionally

• 1.) How do you measure success? have i increased the quality of life in myself or others?? this is how i know if i have been successful

• 2.)What would you want to change about yourself? nothing about myself, i continue to perfect my Soul through this journey called life

• 3.) How do you want to be remembered? as being Compassionate, Loving, Honest, Respectful and Serving Souls around me

• 4.) What is your recurring dream? traveling up a hill and either falling backwards because the incline was impossible to trek or running down a hill being chased by something that frightens me

• 5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day? my children and i have a little conversation called "favorite, not so favorite" and we tell what ours was for the day. in general, hardest part ~ leaving home (i wish my ONLY job was being Mommy), the best part ~ being free to breathe (physically, spiritually, emotionally...)

Robert "Success is measured by a sense of quiet perspective"

2009-09-29T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Robert
Age: 56
Sign: Leo
I grew up in: a dysfunctional family; my mother could have led the womens' movement, so I survived well.
I now live: So. California as a location, but I live in the world of people and elements at heart.
Occupation: My professional occupation is an attorney and real estate broker, a somewhat illusory occupation, not real consistent with being part Cherokee.
You can find me: Playing golf, traveling in the silver Airstream, and/or surfing on warm days in warm water.

You will never find me: In a bar, I hate bars, but I love wine.

Your favorite website or charity: I do not have a favorite website or charity, but I invest in biotech stocks doing research to prevent cancer, particularly those companies involved in research not involving chemotherapy.

Success is not a measure of educational degrees, nor of money. It is measured by a sense of quiet perspective.

Change of oneself is a daily obligation, just simply learn something new each day.

Being remembered by people does not concern me, if we are caring to each other, the remembrance of things past will take care of itself.

I do not recall any recurring dreams, but I am dreamlike awake often.

Each day is neither difficult nor hard. I enjoy awakening each morning, and I treasure sleep.

Nicole "The Traveling Surfer"

2009-09-28T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Nicole Pratt
Age:25
Sign:Leo
Occupation: Surfing Instructor
I grew up in:Lake Elsinore, Ca
I currently live in:San Diego, Ca, Mexico, and Menifee, Ca
You can find me: At the beach
You will never find me: In a war Zone
Your website or Charity you are passionate about:
www.indigosurfandspa.com
or
nicolepratt.blogspot.com

1.)Who or what inspires you??
The world inspires me. There is so much to see, experience, and learn. I want to see and experience as many cultures and countries as I can.

2.)What are you most proud of?
I am most proud of breaking away from the materialistic world and living simply again. Don't get me wrong it is nice to have nice things but I learned the more money I made the more junk i would buy and never use. When I traded the corporate world to be a beach bum I realized how much junk i had so I sold it all got rid of all my debt now I work to not have to work. What i mean by that is i will work a seasonal job and when the season is over I travel for a few months and traveling is way better than having things

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?
My greatest loss in life was loosing my grandpa in 08. No matter what i did he always supported me. When i quit my stable job to travel the world, surf, and teach surfing. He was the only one that told me to do it live you life to the fullest and experience as much as you possibly can. He even went behind everyone back to help me out with some of the cost of traveling to keep my dreams alive.

4.)Who would you like to meet?
Anyone that is real. I love meeting new people from all walks of life just as long as they are real. You don't have to try to be someone your not just be yourself and I'll want to meet you.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?
The hardest part of my day is treading water for 4 hours getting beat by the sun and waves then getting home from work to write a paper and study (Yes I have to write a paper every week for school). The best part of my day is when a guest takes off on a wave rides it all the way in giving me the chance to take a look around to realize I have the best office in the world (beautiful beaches in tropical water).

Carol "I Made It To 50 And The Lightbulbs Still Go On"

2009-09-27T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: carol
Age: 50
Sign: taurus
I grew up in: la la land (los angeles)
I currently live in: long beach
Occupation: licensed drug dealer
You can find me: near water
You will never find me: somewhere where I feel trapped

1.) Who or what inspires you? There is always something inspiring about all the people I've kept in my life. It doesn't mean that they are always my closest friends, heroes, or even sources of inspiration. They're just people like me. But they've done something that betters themselves or helps others that is above what I've imagined doing. It's through others that we get ideas about what could be; what possibilities are out there; things that happen that we'd never do in a million years even if we had the choice.
I've met people with health issues that go on in spite of it all. I mean, yes, we all have to go on, but they manage to see something bright about the here and now and are determined to live. Also there are those who have come out bad situations and have made something fabulous of themselves. I guess what inspires me is that a lot of them do it because it's their inner nature. They couldn't imagine NOT being like this. I guess I think about them when I'm feeling beat or blue.

2.) What are you most proud of? That I made it to 50 and the light bulbs still go on every now and then. Usually they're the little xmas bulb ones but sometimes they're the Broadway neon sign wattage ones.

3.) What has been your greatest loss in life? I knock on wood (a forest if I have to) that I haven't had what I would consider a major loss. I'm anticipating the death of my parents but hopefully that won't be for a while. But I think you want an answer dontcha. I'd have to say the loss of the body strength & flexibility I used to have when I was in my 20's. My mind still thinks it's all there and I have the friends around me that I want to have. So I guess that's it. Please don't ask, 'well what about'. I'm happy in my ignorance.

4.) Who would you like to meet? Someone I click with (to quote Ellen). That's it, plain & simple.

5.) What is the hardest part of your day? Don't think I have one particular part that's hard. I like getting up and seeing the daylight and I love sleeping and I like all the hours in between. Maybe if there's something I'm waiting for...like Santa? lol
What is the best part of your day? on a day to day basis, knowing that I've helped people (at work) or when i'm not at work, doing something creative or physical or learning something new. I like to hop around from one project to another so there's always something in the works.

Tammy "I Am Inspired By Those Who DO Rather Than Talk"

2009-09-26T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Tammy
Age: 42
Sign: Scorpio
Where did you grow up? Kokomo, IN
Where do you live now: Scottsdale, AZ
What do you do? Senior Client Manager
You can find me: In a gym, continuing to change my world.
You won't find me: In a fast food restaurant. Why are you eating all of those ridiculous calories? ;)

What charity you are passionate about? The Triangle Foundation- If you want to really make a difference in the gay community, as a straight or gay person, this is the place to do it. Forget HRC. Until they can stop filling their pockets with empty promises, join a foundation that will do something for our community.www.tri.org

1.)Who or what inspires you?
People who dedicate their lives helping others, personally or professionally. We live a life of luxury compared to most countries. We cry over the fact we can't drive a BMW or own a mansion along the ocean. We complain about gas, food, mortgage/rent, cable, and credit card bills. Yet, believe it or not, there are hundreds of millions of people on this planet who will never see anything near the life we live in this country. I'm inspired by those who throw away the "American Dream" to provide supplies to villages in Africa, those who DO rather than TALK, give medical aid, help prevent diseases, rebuild in areas devastated by natural disasters, and give everyday of their lives to those who are so much less fortunate. Finally, to those professionals who risk or even lose their lives to save or protect others; firefighters, police officers, military personnel, etc. We have so many everyday "heroes." We should all aspire to be more like them.

2.)What are you most proud of?
In 1988, I flunked out of college on purpose for love. In 2003, I embarked on an amazing journey to finish what I started 16 years earlier. For 2 solid years, I worked full time for the University and returned to college full time. I did it the hard way- sitting in classes with amazing 18 and 19 year old kids. I finished my requirements for graduation in December 2005. The proudest day of my life was walking into Continental Arena...the site of so many Springsteen concerts and across the Hudson River from my favorite city in the world (NYC) and graduating Magna Cum Laude with 3200 students.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?
9/11/01. My sister-in-law lost her dear brother, firefighter Michael F. Lynch, Engine 40/Ladder 35. I lived in the city and was 13 miles away that tragic day. I cannot describe the fear and saddness I felt as the events unfolded. I can never take back the reassuring words I left with my sister-in-law, "Michael's fine. He's stationed in the Bronx. They won't get that far out. Don't worry." Nobody knew Michael had been transferred to Midtown Manhattan 6 months prior and he was a first responder. My sister-in-law's loss was not my personal loss, but because I love her so dearly...the pain was unbearable to watch her family go through so much. They recovered Michael's body on March 21, 2002. His memorial was surreal. Imagine walking down the middle of the street behind Michael's body on the back of a firetruck, rounding the corner with thousands and I do mean THOUSANDS of firefighters saluting. 9/11 changed all of our worlds that day. Some 8 million of us, were just closer. She is an absolutely wonderful woman and so is her family. Every year is just as difficult as it was that day.

4.)Who would you like to meet?
Wow, how the years change your perspective. A long time ago, it would have been Jim Morrison to pick his poetic brain. I was just a kid, so please excuse me. Now, I would love to sit down and have a conversation with Bill Clinton. I would love to know what he was thinking when he had the affair with Monica, what it was like to make decisions about Bosnia and Somalia, why he took his eyes off of Osama Bin Laden and didn't kill him when he had the chance. I would love to know what its like to be the most powerful person in the world, what kept him up at night, and how he was so successful in creating a surplus with the help of Congress in our economy. He's one of the most interesting political figures we have ever had in our lifetime. He had a lot of bad with a lot of good.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day? Hardest part of my day is waking up. I would rather sleep than eat and never seem to get enough of it because I'm a night owl. It takes me two hours to be alert enough at work and I get up two hours before work. LOL! The best part of my day is when I have a chance to spend it with friends, family (which is very rare since they live 2500 miles away) my new Aussie, Sydney, and my alone time in the gym or with my personal trainer, Erik. I LOVE my life. I truly do. There are good and bad with each and every day. But, I feel I'm the luckiest person in the world, most of the time.

Sharon "A 23 Year Cancer Survivor"

2009-09-25T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Sharon
Age:43
Sign: Taurus
I grew up in: Moved quite often, as my Dad was in the Air Force, but mostly Oregon & California
I currently live in: Salem, Or
You can find me: Hanging with my friends
You will never find me: In a beauty Salon
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: American Cancer Society-
I am a 23yr survivor

1.)Who or what inspires you?
I can't think of any one person in my life that I know who inspires me.
I do have great respect for people, especially single mothers, who work,go to school to better themselves, while raising a family.

2.)What are you most proud of?
Finally becoming the person I am today. Open and honest about who I am.It was a journey but I am truly happy with myself and the life I have created here in Oregon. I didn't do it alone. I had the help of acquaintances, friends who were in my life for a short time( but obviously for a purpose) and my life long good friends.
Passing the CPHT License Test for Pharmacy Technicians. ON THE FIRST TRY!!
That test is a bitch!!!

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?
My maternal grandmother

4.)Who would you like to meet?
Alive -Sandra Bullock & Carol Burnett
Dead - Jackie O and JFK JR.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day?
Hardest part is getting up in the mornings- (ugh not a morning person)
and at work it is dealing with customers who are unhappy. It is hard not to take it personally when they are itching at me, for reasons that are beyond my control.
What is the best part of your day?
Best part is when I make a customer happy. Any moments from the day that make me laugh.

Max "I get out of bed to learn something"

2009-09-24T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Max
Age: 22
Sign: Blood
I grew up in: San Diego
I currently live in: Pachuca, Hidalgo (Mexico)
Occupation: 6th Grade Teacher
You can find me: Where White Nile Meets West Nile
You will never find me: Littering.

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.cheneysmith.com/terrierblog/index.html

1.)What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? The Idea That I'm Going To Learn Something (And That It Might Make Life More Enjoyable).

2.What life experience has strengthened you the most? The last two weeks of teaching 6th graders....Oh My Christ!

3.)What would you want to change about yourself? My need for money.

4.)Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? Confused. Taught Me To Wear Brighter Colors.

5.)What is your most prized possession? This Badass Jacket I Just Got Three Weeks Ago (It Has Pockets On The INSIDE).

Liz "Rescuing Injured or Orphaned Animals"

2009-09-22T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Liz
Age:born in the year of "Little House of Horrors" and "Psycho", hmmm
Sign: "no soliciting"
I grew up in: metro DC
I currently live in: NW Arkansas, again hmmmm
You can find me: climbing through the woods with my dogs
You will never find me: in smoke-filled bars dodging the overly inebriated
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: charity -www.farmsanctuary.org

1.)What is your dream job? designing online curriculum for an animal welfare or environmental organization

2.)What are you most proud of? rescuing injured or orphaned animals

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? probably the death of my mother since I wasn't aware she was even in the hospital, much less on the brink of death

4.)Who would you like to meet? the missing link

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? differs depending on the events of the day; long, disorganized meetings annoy me.
What is the best part of your day? early morning before the cacophony of civilization has commenced

Katy "I Learned How Strong I Could Be"

2009-09-21T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Katy
Age:40 whew!
Sign:Sagittarius
I grew up in: New Canaan, Connecticut
I currently live in:Sammamish, Washington
Occupation:Stay-at-home Mom
You can find me:playing barbies w/ my gals, or cleaning up whatever they were just playing with.
You will never find me: surfing, water skiing,ice camping,deep sea fishing or rock climbing --done it all once--& don't need to do it ever again thanks.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about:Women's Breast/Ovarian Cancer & American Veterans

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? My husband and my two gorgeous children--whom I try to do my very best & be my best for each & every day to show them I love them very much.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Carrying & Giving Birth to 2 kiddos...but also the Outwardbound Camp for 2 weeks through Camp Jewel in upstate NY--wherein we trained to hike the White Mtns. most notably Mt. Washington & did it --just 2 girls & 9 boys & 3 counselors led the way. I learned just how strong I can be even when I am self-doubting & scared shitless.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? If I could get rid of my Roseacea...that'd be lovely.

4.) How do you want to be remembered? Giving, Loving, Caring & made home cozy & good work ethic & taught my kids the best I could to make them the best I know.

5.) What is your most prized possession? My health.

Dawn "Proudly Stating Who I Am Everyday"

2009-09-20T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Dawn
Age: 34
Sign: Scorpio
I grew up in: San Antonio, TX
I currently live in: West Hollywood, CA
Occupation: Assistant Director
You can find me: walking around the gayborhood looking for Vegan Cookies.
You will never find me: in a Sports Bar talking about my Fantasy Football Team.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.aidswalk.net

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day?
The American Dream gets me out of bed everyday. I want to work hard and accomplish great things like owning my own home and starting a family. My mother did it, now its my turn.

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most?
Coming Out of the closet has strengthened me the most. It taught me a lot about the power of Shame and Hate. I was taught from an early age in Catholic school that being Gay was a sin and shameful, so it took me a long time to Love my (Whole) self. After years of depression I finally decided to be true to my person, and no longer hide in shame. My spiritual and emotional self is stronger now thanks to Proudly stating who I am Everyday. It is not a choice, but just Who I Am!

3.) What would you want to change about yourself?
If I would change one thing about myself, it would be my quickness to Anger. I try to take a 5 minute Timeout when I feel the Frustration kicking in. I'm definitely doing better, but I still need to work on my temper.

4.) How do you want to be remembered?
I want to be remembered as a Loving Nurturing Old Soul.

5.) What is your most prized possession?
My Concert Ticket Collection. From New Kids On The Block to AC/DC...I've seen them All!!!

Jim "Still Alive And Kicking"

2009-09-19T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Jim
Age: 45
Sign: Peace
I grew up in: spite of my best efforts not to.
I currently live in: Northampton Mass.
Occupation: Live Music Promoter
You can find me: if I'm who you're really looking for
You will never find me: in transgender beastiality chatrooms...on a weekday
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.airsicknessbags.com

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? My Job

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? My near self-destruction

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? I would ask my brain to stop screaming and chattering at me

4.) How do you want to be remembered? As the guy who is still alive and kicking.

5.) What is your most prized possession? My Mac

Katherine "Making Movies"

2009-09-18T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Katherine
Age: 32
Sign: Pisces
I grew up in: A small town in Louisiana
I currently live in: A Big town in Los Angeles
You can find me: making movies
You will never find me: playing bingo

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.theboysclubmovie.com

1.)Who or what inspires you? Nature

2.)What are you most proud of? Our evolution

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? My insanity

4.)Who would you like to meet? Obama

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? leaving my horses
What is the best part of your day? taking a bubble bath at night

Rachel "Success Is Contentment"

2009-09-17T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Rachel
Age: 32
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: Portland, Or
I currently live in: Eureka, Ca
Occupation: fitness instructor
You can find me: on myspace. www.myspace.com/therealbabymama, or jogging through my neighborhood.
You will never find me: at McDonalds.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: SEVA www.seva.org

• 1.) How do you measure success?

Success is a state of mind. It is not an amount of money, a house, a car, a perfect marriage or the most brilliant accomplished children. It is contentment. It is being in the moment and noticing your own breath, the sun on your face, the sensation of living. Failure is forgetting to notice how lucky you are, every single day.

• 2.)What would you want to change about yourself?

As long as I can remember my family was the “late family.” I’d like to forever be known as the girl who reversed the code. The girl who’s family was always on time. I am not quite there though. The genetic code is strong.

• 3.) How do you want to be remembered?

I expect to be remembered by the brief generation or two that follows me. I accept that I will not be remembered always. I have great great great grandparents. Do I remember them? No. There are graveyards full of forgotten people. It is inevitable. It is okay. It is normal. I can be one of the invisible forgottens. There is no shame in it. I wonder if Einstein would have preferred it over his notoriety.

• 4.) What is your recurring dream?

There is one. It is a nightmare. Visions of rape and torture. Home invasion. A coworker of my mother died that way. I was nine. It left a mark on my insides.

• 5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?

Growing up I vowed to never be “the cook”. Just because I was born female automatically meant I had to learn this skill. I vowed to find a man who would do the cooking for me. I did. He is wonderful. He is also working two hours away from home. I have to be the cook. It is hard. I am getting better. The meals are less and less often “experiments” and more often successes.

Best part of the day: my jog.

Wendy "I Always Want To Smell My Childhood Backyard"

2009-09-16T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Wendy
Age:44
Sign:capricorn
I grew up in:San Diego
I currently live in:San Diego (about 1 mile from the hospital I was born at. And I work about one mile from this hospital, at a college that was just completed the year I was born).
Occupation: English teacher, San Diego Mesa Community College.
You can find me: at dog beach
You will never find me: wearing that yucky dull red color clothes that they try to sell you over the holidays.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Project Wildlife!

1.)What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? The element of surprise.

2.)What life experience has strengthened you the most? I bench press a thousand stupid mistakes and I can curl about fifty cruel injustices.

3.)What would you want to change about yourself? Not sure. I could say "my overdeveloped sense of responsibility" but then where would I be?

4.)Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? Canyon, climbing trees, night-blooming jasmine, narcissus bulbs that multiplied every year. I have to plant narcissus bulbs and I have to have night-blooming jasmine outside my window. I always want to smell my childhood backyard.

5.)What is your most prized possession? A bunch of very old family albums. In a disaster, as far as material things, I'd go for those.

Jonatha "Passionate About Doing The Right Thing"

2009-09-15T00:01:00.001-07:00

Name: Jonatha Brooke
Age: 45
Sign: Aquarius, like Oprah, and Joe Sample! ;)
Occupation: singer/songwriter/producer
I grew up in: Boston, Massachusetts
I currently live in: New York City
You can find me: Usually on a plane, train, or automobile. Or if I'm
actually home? Knitting or watching CSI re-runs, or my new FAVORITE SHOW OF
ALL TIME: "Nurse Jackie."
You will never find me: In Times Square, unless it is an absolutely life or
death situation.

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Greenpeace and ASPCA,
jonathabrooke.com

1.) What are you passionate about? I'm passionate about doing the right thing. And incredibly impatient with shirkers and do-wrongers and
hypocrites. I'm passionate about my family, my husband, (my husband's
cooking), my friends, and the lost art of listening. Good music and good
writing are the other essentials.

2.) What are you most proud of? My marriage makes me proud. I'm still in love after twelve years. Weak in the knees even. And there are three songs I've written that still make me well up when I hear them, or sing them.... "So Much Mine," "Because I Told You So" "My Sweet and Bitter Bowl." Ok, four, "Paris."

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life?
I know it just sounds gushy, but my husband and my best friend Ronnie. My husband is absolutely steady, still waters. He is generous to a fault, honest even when it hurts, unrufflable in a crisis, and an incredible lover and partner. His integrity is a huge influence and daily inspiration.

My best friend Ronnie keeps me honest and in check, and she re-animates me
when I hit the creative "I suck" wall. She has stuck with me through thick
and thin and we share this empathic weakness/strength that bonds us even
though we are from totally different worlds.

4.) What is difficult for you?
The hardest thing for me is constantly having to re-callibrate my sense of
"success." I love my career, and have had an incredible path so far, filled
with respect, fabulous opportunities, and incredible musical associations.
It just never looks the way I expected when I first started out. And more
and more it is a real juggling act to piece all my worlds -- writing,
recording, producing, touring -- together into a cohesive, sustaining
living.

5.) Who would you like to meet?
You know, I would just like to see my dad again. He died at 68, way too
soon, unexpectedly, and I felt like I was just starting to crack a certain
barrier he kept up. I admire(d) him so much. In that sense it would be like
meeting him for the first time. In a second chance sort of way.

Photo Credit: Susannah Conway

Now Touring!

Autumn "Charitable Fundraiser"

2009-09-14T00:01:00.001-07:00

Name: Autumn
Age: 33
Sign: Leo
I grew up in: Willits, CA
I currently live in: Long Beach, CA
Occupation: Marketing
You can find me: on the 405
You will never find me: At a sports bar
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: KIVA.org

1.)What is your dream job?

I have no idea. I love my job now, even with its frustrations. I like its mixture of glamour, creativity, intelligence, pressure and charitable fundraising. It's hard to find. It would improve with a promotion. :) In the future, once I'm past my peak earning years, I see myself running a space or restaurant that fuels community and socialization with some political/philosophical/musical/literary leanings. If I can interact with art and conversation every day, I feel satisfied.

2.)What are you most proud of?

I am most proud of my loving nature. I fought against some pretty vile tendencies in my early twenties to break through and realize that every person bears their own burden and deserves to be treated like a human being with empathy and compassion.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life?

My grandmother, Hripsime Nazarian, died when I was ten.
I have always felt extremely cheated out of time with her, especially since she was sick for many of the years preceding her death. She was an immigrant with countless stories and wisdom. Her experiences included growing up wealthy, then losing everything and learning to deal with the realities of poverty. She was restless. She was an entrepreneur and had a successful dress shop that she ran out of her basement in Boston. She did this despite the fact that my grandfather was wealthy and many of her social peers looked down their noses at a working wife. I am connected to her in ways that go deeper than DNA. I even put her in my cell phone - listed with my number. She is always the guide I turn to for assistance when reason and logic seem useless. Losing her too young was a tremendous loss.

4.)Who would you like to meet?

So many people. The Clintons and Obama of course. I would LOVE to meet someone like Karl Rove just to pick his brain to discover the motives... The mind reels. I would love to have dinner with Richard Branson, Richard Dawkins or Warren Buffet. Also Stephen Hawking. I would love to meet the scientists at CERN. Ok, I'll shut up now.

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? What is the best part of your day?

The hardest part of my day takes place on the 405 freeway, resigned and frustrated. The best part of my day is waking up with my girlfriend, our dog & cat and maybe pressing the snooze button.

Jianda "Creating Magic Online"

2009-09-14T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Jianda
Age: 30something
Sign: Virgo
Occupation: Artist
I grew up in: A magical timeless dream space
I currently live in: Southern California
You can find me: Creating Magic Online
You will never find me: If you never look for me
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Website? http://www.jianda.net. Charity? http://www.rainn.org.

1) Who or what inspires you?
All of life inspires me (so that includes an infinite amount of "who's," and "what's," "where, when, why, how's..."). I marvel at the ability that each individual has to create reality (even if it's only in mind)--even unconsciously so. We're all so miraculous that way. Even in the depths of depression it's still just the least that the person knows about good at the time--and it can still evolve and change. I love that we have the ability to be "conscious about our consciousness," and that it expresses itself in so many lovely ways. The idea that some of us are looking at the stars, even from the gutter (Paraphrasing Oscar Wilde, with help from the band The Pretenders). :)

That's the long answer. The shorter answer would be "artistic expression." I think both ideas are the same thing.

2) What has been your greatest achievement?
The body of work that I've created as an artist in various media: prose, music, radio shows/interviews, photography, theater--it helps me to heal and feel good and others have shared that same feedback as well. I'm most proud of it because it's the feeling I get when I'm moved by art with any kind of insight or spark, and it makes me feel like I'm giving back somehow.

3) If money weren't an issue what would you be doing for a living? Exactly what I'm doing right now: studying Holistic Health Practitioner coursework, creating works of art online, studying I.T., and making feelgood music.

4) Who would I like to meet?
Could you clarify "meet?" If the sense is like a "meeting," spanning over time: Oprah. If it's a "meet" like "meet and greet," it would be the Obama family.

5) What do you want to see before you die?
I'd love to see my berry-brown, bare feet squished into healthy, vitamin-rich soil that supports a flourishing garden in my own backyard (I know I need to create the space for the garden first).

Thank you

2009-08-14T00:01:00.000-07:00

I want to thank all of you who have answered 5 questions about your life to share to the world. It is appreciated in so many ways. You can influence someone just by living your life and talking about the things you are passionate about and the struggles you went through or are going through today.

As I travel the USA with my dog, Max, I won't be able to post each day as I was in the past. I'll do my best to try and post when people share their life.

You can follow us on our journey here:
Alison Travels

Thank you again!
Love,
Alison and Max

Michelle "My Children Inspire Me Each Day"

2009-08-13T00:01:00.001-07:00

First Name: Michelle
Age:38
Sign:LIbra
I grew up in:Davis, CA
I currently live in:Davis, CA
Occupation:Principal of an Elementary School
You can find me:easily-I am six feet tall. Seriously, you will find me at work or with my kids.
You will never find me:in a bikini, eating raw fish, or playing the violin
Your website or Charity you are passionate about:Anything that works to beat cancer

1.) Who or what Inspires you? My children inspire me each day. My dad has inspired me tremendously lately as I watch his fight against cancer. I aspire to live my life like he does.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I have no patience and my hastiness causes me to miss some real quality moments.

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? This last year has made me tough as nails. My father is fighting cancer, my grandfather died, my cat of 14 years died, my dog of 10 years died, I started a new job, and I got a divorce. I have learned that it can always be worse not matter how bad it is!

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My mother and father.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? I want poeple to think that their lives were slightly better because they shared it with me. Most importantly, I know that I will live on in my children and I hope that they can carry out good in the world and in the hearts of those they

Anne "I Am Inspired By People"

2009-08-12T00:01:00.001-07:00

Name: Anne

Sign: Cancer

I grew up in Santa Barbara, CA

I currently live in Santa Barbara, CA, but not until after a 28 year absence, during which I went into the Army, flew helicopters in Alabama, Tennessee, Kentucky, and Central America. Got out, moved to the Bay Area and spent 15 years there. Then, back to Santa Barbara.

Occupation: self-employed as an artist, Internet entrepreneur, writer (I write non-fiction eBooks)

You can find me: hanging with my girl, on my computer, at the beach.

You will never find me: I never say never and know myself well enough to know that that is true.

What Charity are you passionate about? Saying that I am passionate about a charity seems like the 'right' thing to do, but I honestly believe asking for charity is buying into being a victim. I give when I can, usually to random people down on their luck when I have extra cash.

1) Who or What inspires you? I am inspired by people, who in spite of great odds, are determined not to be victims and rise above their circumstances to do great things. I am inspired by my partner, Kellie, who is extremely patient, compassionate, and kind.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself?
I try to work constantly on myself. Right now I am working on learning how to forgive and how to be patient.

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? I believe my personal relationships have strengthened me the most. By strengthen I mean that I have become more than who I was before, and stronger in my knowing who I am, what I want, and where I want to go.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life?I can't say that there has been any one person in my life that has been the most influential. There have been many people in different roles, at different times who have influenced my life in meaningful ways. Sometimes the most influential have been the ones from whom I have learned how not to be, or what not to do. I think much of what I have worked to overcome in my life comes from a past that includes lack of trust and lack of respect. Because of that, people who were less than kind or compassionate to me may be the most influential because those experiences have caused me to look deeply, heal myself, and to learn to forgive.

5.) How do you want to be remembered?I hope by the time I am ready to go that I will have made a difference on some lives. I hope to be remembered at least as an example of healthy living and spiritual connectedness, and as someone who tried their entire life to expand and awaken.

Corday "Rocking And Rollin On Stage"

2009-08-11T00:01:00.001-07:00

Name: Jennifer Corday
Age: Wise, but young at heart
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: Long Beach
I currently live in: Long Beach
Occupation: Musician
You can find me: rockin and rollin on stage with my guitar
You will never find me: bored
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: the fight against cancer (I lost my mom to the disease) and animal rights. Vegetarians rule!

1.) Do you love what you do? Yes! It is truly my calling and my passion to write and perform.

2.) What are you most proud of? The songs I have written, they are like my babies, now all grown up and out in the world.

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most?
Losing my mother 3 years ago. Every relationship.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My parents.

5.) What is your most prized possession? my guitar? I have so many-- any guitar I guess I would say, as it's not the actual guitar that is the prize but the power it gives me to make music that I treasure pics of me and my mom

Deborah "Smiling And Finding The Good Everywhere"

2009-08-10T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Deb
Age: well, I’m over 50 under 60 – when did it become ok to ask a woman her age, ok, I’m 57.
Sign: Go (er… Capricorn)
Occupation: Marketing
I grew up in: Massachusetts
I currently live in: Upstate NY
You can find me: helping someone, volunteering, smiling and finding the good everywhere
You will never find me: snarling or spending the day shopping
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: my website is http://www.hellinthehallway.net – dedicated to helping others find work

My charity is Partners In Community Development. We partner with low income housing community developers to provide services on-site including high quality, affordable child care and programs for teens, adults and seniors. Dedicated people work there. (and I love Heifer, it’s what I give and ask for instead of gifts)

1.) What are you passionate about?

Helping others. Everyday there are so many ways to help. I have been in business for many years so I volunteer with an organization known as SCORE (part of the Federal Govt’s Small Business Administration). I also work in marketing so I try, everyday to find a way to help a person, business, whatever meet their goals. Sometimes a smile or a sincere thank you is all a I need to do to help improve someone’s day.

2.) What are you most proud of? Overcoming a difficult childhood and raising two great kids almost entirely on my own. I learned more from them than I taught them. They are now in their 20’s and are fine people. Generous, funny, kind, smart with a low tolerance for nonsense (but a high tolerance for shenanigans!)

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Why? My Aunt Dorothy. She died 10 years ago at the age of 99. One of the shrewdest and kindest people I have ever known. She never said a bad thing about anyone but she could see right through you. She would accept each person for exactly who they are/were. No external judgments but you always wanted to be your best in her presence.

4.) What is difficult for you? When I was younger, I was very outgoing and my batteries got recharged by being with people. This is all changing. The older I get, the more I feel like being quiet and by myself. It’s a big adjustment and I’m comfortable and uncomfortable.

5.) Who would you like to meet? You, you rock! Almost anyone, everyone is so cool. Musicians, poets, painters, film makers, gardeners, cooks. Anyone who works to keep the creative spark alive in themselves and their daily life. Ok, I’d like to have met Ghandi. Dali Lama, successful women entrepreneurs. I could go on and on. You get the picture.

Doreen "Reading and Doing Needlepoint"

2009-08-09T00:01:00.001-07:00

Name: Doreen
Age: 53
Sign: Aries
Occupation: Retired EMT
I grew up in: North Bergen, NJ, Rochester, NY
I currently live in: Brighton, NY
You can find me: On Facebook, Reading and doing Needlepoint
You will never find me: Hanging in a bar
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Crohn's Disease Foundation

1.) What are you passionate about?
Anything that has to do with my children

2.) What are you most proud of?
My children

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Why?
My mother. She taught me all about love, respect and how to put a smile on my face and others!

4.) What is difficult for you?
Sometimes day to day life. I have had Crohn's Disease all my life. My husband Has CMT which is a severe neuropathy. In 5 short years he has gone from being a hard working man , to a wheelchair. There is always pain involved with both of us.

5.) Who would you like to meet?
President Obama...... I have alot of questions for him!

Debbie "Passionate About Astrology"

2009-08-08T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Debbie
Age: 57
Sign: Aries
Occupation: Real Estate Broker
I grew up in: Skokie, IL
I currently live in: Albuquerque, NM
You can find me: at the home/office, at the gym, at the airport, at the movies, at the Apple Store,
at various restaurants, at Sandia Casino, or just hanging out.
You will never find me: at church, at a football game, skiing.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.gaynewmexico.com and all animal charities.

What are you passionate about?
I am passionate about astrology, and dogs that are mistreated
or left behind. I am passionate about my own dog, Irie.

What are you most proud of?
I'm most proud of meeting most of my goals as I travel the journey
through life. I'm proud of my successes and my ability to help others reach their goals and contribute to their successes.

Who has been the most influential person in your life?
There have been many influences over the years, my father
was one - he believed in me. My mother too, she supported
my ideas and plans (even the crazy ones). I was influenced by
Katherine DeJersey the astrologer when I was younger.
I have been influenced by many people I've worked with over
the years too - some in positive ways some in not positive ways.

What is difficult for you?
Accepting things that are unacceptable. Cruelty to animals. Cruelty to
people. Katrina and it's never ending outcome. The "bailout" in this country
and all that is related to that.

Who would you like to meet?
Unfortunately, I'd like to meet some people who are dead.
Michael Jackson, Harvey Milk, Judy Garland, John Kennedy Jr.
For the living, I'd also like to meet Michelle Obama, Barbra Streisand,
Bill Clinton, Joy Behar, Barbara Walters, Al Gore, Colin Powell, Oprah
and Gayle.

Jennifer "Passionate About Star Trek"

2009-08-07T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Jennifer
Age: 42
Sign: Libra
Occupation: Personal Concierge (aka Errand Goddess)
I grew up in: Central Florida
I currently live in: Northeast Georgia
You can find me: Watching, reading, creating something about Science Fiction or Fantasy.
You will never find me: Living above The Mason–Dixon Line
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Star Trek... http://www.jc1701.com is my personal site. So naturally, my business website is http://www.warpspeederrands.com (the speed at which starships travel in space on Star Trek). The charity I support the most... American Business Women's Association Lake Lanier Charter Chapter as we raise $ to give to young women to assist in their education. http://www.abwallcc.org.

1.) What are you passionate about? Star Trek, Scrapbooking, Science Fiction, my Kitties, and my Husband.

2.) What are you most proud of? Owning a piece of original Star Trek memorabilia. A one of a kind blueprint of Star Trek's Next Generation Galaxy Class Starship. Circa 1990. Signed by Michael Okuda - It still shows the folds in the paper where he just stuck it in a file cabinet. Long story about how I received it, but the short and sweet, well... actually short and sweet would be Michael and Denise, but I am truly blessed to know them.

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My Father - 1927 - 2008. He was a remarkable man. Respected, well educated (Master in Music @ UM), loved life, and his family. The just don't make men like him anymore. I've married a wonderful man who is much like my Father was, but is just shy of the perfection that was ... Daddy.

4.) What is difficult for you? Focusing on single projects. I multi task way too often, and too easily. I don't have AAD... oh, look a kitty!

5.) Who would you like to meet? Humm..., well I have met and conversed with 'The Great Bird of the Galaxy' (aka Gene Roddenberry), so the next would have to be DeForest Kelley. Yes, I would have like to have met 'Bones'. He reminded me of the ol'e country doctor who delivered me and was still practicing when I graduated from High School!

Harry "I Am Proud Of My Son"

2009-08-06T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Harry
Age:34
Sign:Virgo - yes, I make a lot of lists.
Occupation:Creative Director, Sole Proprietor of Sylph, LLC.
I grew up in:Ohio and Texas
I currently live in:Lewis Center, Ohio
You can find me:Running, biking or swimming as time permits. More often than not I'm stuck in the office, relaxing with my girlfriend or relearning something I thought I already knew with my son.
You will never find me:Hard to say. I'm doing today, what I thought I'd never do a year ago.

Your website or Charity you are passionate about:
http://www.sylphmarketing.com - this is my business.

1.) What are you passionate about?
I'm passionate about design; promoting an idea, concept or product
the right way; and being a good father. Failure is not an option for
the person that people depend on. I'm dedicated to making good
decisions for everyone involved.

2.) What are you most proud of?
My 10-year-old son, Gabriel. I wasn't in love with having a child when
he was born. He continually astonished me with his outlook and
demeanor and eventually grew on me. He's my best friend now and he
knows it. He doesn't like to do everything I like to do, but I like to
do everything he likes to do. I love sharing all that I know with him.

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life?
Again, I'll have to go with Gabe. He's taught me more about patience,
trust and living more than anyone or event. I'd be a bitter old man
already if it weren't for him.

4.) What is difficult for you?
Knowing when to quit. Too much TV as a child taught me to never give
up on anything. Living as an adult has taught me that I need to learn
when to move on.

5.) Who would you like to meet?
There isn't any particular person I'd like to meet. A chance encounter
with someone under-appreciated who has amazing insight would be great.
Someone who can teach me one of life's great lessons without me having
to live through the harshness of learning it on my own.

Carrie "Delivering Babies And Telling Stories About My Standard Poodle"

2009-08-05T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Carrie
Age: 51
Sign: Sagittarius with Scorpio rising
I grew up in Shaker Heights, Ohio
I currently live in Long Beach, California
Occupation: physician
You can find me on Labor and Delivery at Long Beach Memorial Medical Center delivering babies and telling stories about my standard poodle, Tallulah Poodlehead Goddess of Love.
You will never find me at Disneyland.
You will never ever find me in church.
I am on the board of the Long Beach Gay and Lesbian Center and am passionate about meeting the often overlooked needs of our community. Right now I am co-chairing a team of people who are organizing a low fee mental health program for the Center.

1) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? The poodle gets me out of bed each day. She has to maintain my attention on my most important priorities: feed the poodle, love the poodle, walk the poodle and play with the poodle.

2.)What life experience has strengthened you the most? Strengths can also be weaknesses. My medical training helped me become a decisive, powerful person but also shut down my access to my human vulnerability. I'm in therapy trying to maintain my humanity in the face of an incredibly demanding job and a tendency to take care of anyone and everyone instead of myself. I guess my unrelenting desire for insight has strengthened me more than anything else.

3.)What would you want to change about yourself? I would become computer literate. My mind is too concrete to enjoy the computer and enjoyment is what leads to the experimentation and errors that lead to learning.

4.)Describe the landscape of the place you grew up. How did that landscape affect you? I grew up in Northeast Ohio, an area of hardwood deciduous forest. I love the color green. I love the out of doors. My father is a serious birdwatcher who raised me to be observant and respectful of my natural environment. The land is flat in western Ohio because the Ice Age glaciers ground down the land; near my parent's home is the terminal moraine where the land was pushed forward by the advancing glacier's edge. The hills and valleys have beautiful contours, tall trees and wild turkeys strutting about. (I don't mean the teenagers.)

5.)What is your most prized possession? I don't set much store by concrete possessions. I value my education more than anything else. I have a very strong liberal arts background as well as a degree that allows me both to support myself and travel around the world.

Jill "It's The Little Things In Life"

2009-08-04T00:01:00.000-07:00

My name is Jill Lorraine Potter and my birth day was Jan 27th 1969; which will make me 40 in the year 2009. I am an Aquarius…it is the sign of the water bearer but in actuality is an Air sign. I grew up in St. Petersurg, Florida. I currently live in Italy, New York; 8 miles NE of my hometown of Naples, NY. Full time I am an Artist. I design jewelry, photograph nature, create hand made beaded purses; seasonally I work full time at Joseph’s Wayside Market; one of the largest open air farmer’s markets in the upstate. It is an awesome place to work! When I am not at work you can most likely find me outdoors doing something. You will never find me screaming, cursing or otherwise demeaning a child! I have a web page with all my creations which isn’t getting much traffic, but I would rather people visit the American Cancer Society and donate to which ever cause has touched your life the most. Cancer in general has invaded my family for years and taken many in it’s wake.

Who inspires me?

I would have to say those who have the most against them but achieve the most anyhow. I don’t mean monetarily either. I mean in life in general. Those who spread positive energy no matter where they go or who they see. Just their presence is necessary to create this overwhelming sensation. IE…Mother Teresa, Ghandi and my Aunt Patricia Rose Potter Hackett. She would light up a room anywhere.

What am I most proud of?

I am most proud of the parents who spend the time with their children to help mold them into kind and gentle souls who know they can do anything they put their mind to doing. We live in a time where most parents have to have two jobs each in order to make ends meet but I take my hat off to those who do that and still make time for their children!

What has been the greatest loss in my life?

The greatest loss in my life would have to be the passing of my Aunt Patricia Rose Potter Hackett. Her guidance and love helped me through my teen years; when there was no one else for me to turn to. She was so understanding and a wonderfully gentle soul. She helped me see that I was worthy of love. I was 22 and in the Army; stationed at Ft. Monmouth, NJ. I had been up for 16 hrs and drove 11 more when I received the call from the Red Cross. She was a guiding angel here on earth!!!

Who would I like to meet?

I would like to meet those who have simple words that speak mountains; those who are kind and gentle souls and those who light up a room just by walking into it!

What is my hardest part of the day?

My hardest part of the day I would have to say trying to go to sleep. I lay there most nights trying to wind down from whatever it is I was doing. Physical wind down is easy to accomplish. Winding down your mind is another. I have been told throughout my life that I am a deep thinker. I suppose this is why it isn’t so easy for me to turn the thoughts off. You name it I think about it; no exaggeration. My mind works a bit slower than most only because I think of every scenario that can be thought of in any given conversation. This is why most of the time I just listen when in a crowd. I would make a good social worker but it would take forever to go through school even though I was trained in the Army to do such a job.

What is my best part of the day?

The best part of my day is the first thing that makes me smile; a thought, a smile from someone else. Whatever it may be that is the moment that brightens up the rest of my day. It is the little things in life that make it so worth while; most times those things are free: Laughter, Joy, Smiles, Kindness, Generosity, Understanding, Compassion, Empathy, Gentleness, Tenderness, Hugs and giving all these things to others.

This next question popped into my head after answering all these other questions.

What has brought you the most joy in life?

The thing that has brought me to most joy in life is meeting all of the people that I have and getting to know them and having them want to get to know me. It’s the people that have taken the time from their lives to include me in them. It’s the people that you can call ten years after not speaking and pick up where you left off; filling in the blanks along the way. It is also the people; well pretty much everyone. Anyone and everyone that has/have presented a positive influence on my life!

Dana "Create A Life That Brings Me Joy"

2009-08-03T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Dana
Age: Thirty Somethin'
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: A single-parent-household run by a Jewish mother in which two out of three kids are gay. I grew up in a time when Swatches were in style, parachute pants ruled the school yard, and Flock of Seagulls had the best hair on radio.
I currently live in: beautiful New Mexico.
Occupation: Professional Comedienne
You can find me: at the gym, in the mountains, on the road, in a theatre, the cover of CURVE Magazine, at my niece and nephew's house, at the movies, in San Francisco, driving around in my truck, eating sushi at one of my favorite restaurants, playing on facebook, singing karaoke, living life.
You will never find me: performing at the Republican National Convention. HA!
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.danagoldberg.com

1) Who or what inspires you?
There are so many things that inspire me on a daily basis. My desire to succeed and create a life that brings me joy is one of my most powerful inspirations. I could go on and on, but these are also things and people that inspire me: my family, people who are living their passion, my niece and nephew, a very special UWSHJ, making a difference in someone's life, bringing laughter to a stranger, affecting someone's life for the better, being someone the younger LGBT community can look up to, achieving my dreams, and recreating them on a daily basis.

2) What would you change about yourself?
I would like to have bigger calves and more tone in my arms. :) I'm actually in the process of changes a few things about myself for the better. Let's keep our fingers crossed. If I actually had to say one thing, I would not procrastinate so much, but I'll finish answering this question later. ;)

3) What life experience has strengthened you the most?
I think there are several that have had a profound impact on who I am, and who i want to continue to become. I would say that through all of the experiences that have strengthened me, those that teach me and challenge me to honor myself and who I am are the ones that I am thankful for, even if they hurt like hell while they were happening. :)

4) Who has been the most influential person in your life?
There have been so many people that have touched my heart and my life over the last 33 years. I could make a list but would hate to leave anyone out (I'm practicing my acceptance speech for the academy awards). In a very strange way, I think the most influential person in my life has been, and will always be....me. I'm forever grateful to all those friends and family that have supported me on my journey.

5) How do you want to be remembered?
I want to be remembered as someone who was caring, honest, beautiful, giving, hilarious, an amazing Aunt, incredible daughter, wonderful sister, a best friend, outstanding partner (one day), powerful woman, amazing comedian, an inspiration, hilarious (did I mention hilarious? :)), and someone who made this world a better and more joyous place to live....and hilarious.

Photo Credits: Stage Photo-Robert Barbutti, Headshot-Cheryl Mazak

Sasha "Card Carrying Lesbian"

2009-08-02T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Sasha
Age: 31 and getting better every year
Sign: Libra
I grew up in: Los Angeles, CA
I currently live in: Los Angeles, CA
Occupation: Lesbian Writer/Blogger
You can find me: in a fight gym kicking ass any night of the week, or at an art gallery opening
You will never find me: bowling
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/

1. My dream job is to be a successful lesbian writer and novelist. I want to make women laugh and give them an escape from their daily grind every once in a while.

2. I am most proud of staying in graduate school and the fact that I'm almost done with my PhD!!!

3. My greatest loss in life has been missed opportunities that I passed on because I was afraid to fail. But I've learned from that, and now I live life to the fullest, every second of every day.

4. If I could meet anyone dead or alive, I would want to meet my favorite writer, Kahlil Gibran.

5. The hardest part of my day is when I wake up and realize that my girlfriend has been recalled into the Marine Corps and that she's really going back to Iraq. But the best part of my day is when I get to talk to her, if only for a minute.

Christina "Helping People Be Good Humans"

2009-08-01T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Christina
Age: 31
Sign: Capricorn
Occupation: Life coach
I grew up in: Boston, MA
I currently live in: San Diego, CA
You can find me: eating at a hole-in-the-wall restaurant that serves REALLY good food
You will never find me: being the center of attention
My website: http://yourlifeconnected.wordpress.com

1.) What are you passionate about? Helping people be good humans

2.) What are you most proud of? Being scared about something but doing it anyways

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Why? My maternal grandfather. He was an amazing person who had a quiet presence that spoke volumes. He was the person who reminded me of what was really important in life.

4.) What is difficult for you? Giving up on people

5.) Who would you like to meet? My great, great grandparents on both my parents sides to know more about where I come from.

Karen "Kitten Rescuer"

2009-07-31T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Karen
Age: 52
Sign: Libra
Occupation: Chiropractor
I grew up in: Greater Detroit area
I currently live in: Chico, CA
You can find me: On the golf course
You will never find me: At a Christian rally.

1.) What are you passionate about? Motorcycles. After getting in a wreck this summer and fracturing my clavicle, I questioned about ever riding again. Months went by without it ever healing so while I was in a sling , I bought 2 more . I am in the process of restoring (using the term lightly) an old Yamaha Seca and tooling around on my old school scooter. Fun!

2.) What are you most proud of? That I played two sports at Michigan State. Back in the day, it didn’t seem like much of an accomplishment, but when I look back it was a pretty cool thing. A few years back, they had a recognition/acknowledgment weekend and gave all of us our varsity letter. I have great memories of those years and feel a real connection to the University. I bleed green….. Go State.

3.) What has been the most life altering experience for you? Several years back I spent a summer caring for some kittens that were rescued from the Sacramento pound. A friend went down and took about 30 from that facility. I ended up with 5 that lost their mom in the first week of there life. I spent hours nursing them, bathing them, etc. Around the 8th to the 10th week 3 died from different causes. It was heartbreaking. I was holding each one of them on my chest as they passed. I haven’t ever cried so hard before, or since. I learned a lot about death and helping them make the transition.

4.) What do you want to do when you grow up? I want to get married. The passing of Proposition 8 was a real disappointment. I never thought much about getting married before. Being a Lesbian for over 30 years, it never seemed like it was ever a possibility for me. Then it was a reality and I had to think about it as a possibility. Several friends got married over the summer. It was so good to witness their love and commitment. One day….

5.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? My dog Jack. He kisses my face when it is time to get up. I am a very responsible person and that means starting the day taking care of my animals. Making coffee is next.

Andria "Finding My Own Voice"

2009-07-30T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Andria
Age: 40
Sign: Scorpio
Occupation: Geek J
I grew up in: on the Canadian border in Idaho, a small town called Bonners Ferry
I currently live in: Boise, Idaho (after spells in Oregon, Europe, and Seattle)
You can find me: playing outside, visiting friends, in a messy cubicle, or travelling (as time and money allow)
You will never find me: at the mall, or playing video games
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Heifer Foundation: http://www.heiferfoundation.org/index.cfm. Fantastic.

1.) What are you passionate about? Creating! Making something out of nothing. Be it product design… painting… clothing design… or re-purposing, creating makes me happy. I prefer to be a producer, not a consumer, whenever possible. I am also addicted to watching history programs and etymology.

2.) What are you most proud of? Finding my own voice (it is still a work in progress!) I believe that is necessary before you can fully participate and contribute to this crazy thing called life

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My parents- they shaped my foundation (and are put on a higher pedestal the older I get). They provided a unique and wonderful childhood, as well as an example of integrity, a connection to the outdoors, and the basic value of hard work. My sister has been a huge influence, she is a force. Also, various friends, who by example or advice, inspired me to make positive changes {Jenn, Brad, Frank, Gary, Kelli, Lisa, Paul… there are so many great humans out there!} I am also grateful for those who’ve brought sadness, as their influence helped shape my life and give me strength.

4.) What is difficult for you? I find it difficult to not be critical, I have to catch myself and focus on the positive.

5.) Who would you like to meet? DaVinci, in his time, in his prime, to absorb his life and discover how he was so productive & motivated. I have always envied brilliance, and would love a chance to see how he lived, and how he thought, and what a normal day was like.

Grant "Open Minded And Curious"

2009-07-29T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Grant
Age: 26
Sign: Aquarius
Occupation: Writer
I grew up in: Rochester, New York
I currently live in: New York City
You can find me: In Harlem or Mexico.
You will never find me: At a church/temple/mosque/synagogue
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.vagabondstory.com/ is my website.... my charity that I'm most passionate about is Doctors Without Borders.

1.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My parents have been the most influential people in my life. They taught me from an early age to be incredibly open-minded and curious. If it wasn't for their constant love and support I would never be where I am today.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I suppose I'd change the fact that my wallet is near empty... aside from that, I'm pretty happy with who I am.

3.) Is there something you would do differently if you could go back in time? I would go back to England in the 50s and prevent Simon Cowell's parents from having sex.

4.) How do you measure success? Not by money, possessions or any other materialistic thing... I measure success by the smile on a persons face and their energy... positive energy mixed with confidence and passion makes someone successful.

5.) What is your most prized possession? My book, Imagine: A Vagabond Story, which will be available 9/1/09.

Amy "Raising Children Has Taught Me More Than Words Can Say"

2009-07-27T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Amy
Age: 45
Sign: Leo
I grew up in: I grew up on military bases all over the country and overseas.
I currently live in: Ohio
Occupation: Mom, writer
You can find me: skinny dipping at night in the pool of a friend who is out of town, running in a park field with my dog (fully clothed), in hideous bike shorts, gloves, riding my bike on a bike trail and singing off key to the songs on my iPod, in the organic section, in the no smoking section, laughing loudly on the phone, stopping for pedestrians on the crosswalk, holding up traffic to let a family of five ride their bikes across a busy street on their way to school, at the pet store fondling puppies I can't afford.
You will never find me: in a mosh pit; skydiving; mouthing off the elderly unless it's that guy that groped me in the library; in a plastic surgeon's waiting room; trying on maternity clothes; solving a mathematical equation on a chalkboard at MIT.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.amymusings.com is my website and I am passionate about Heifer International. Donating to them helps fight hunger and poverty.

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? What gets me out of bed each day is that window of time between dreams and wakefulness, that altered state, that isn't with me any other time of the day, when I hear my muse and I write until it has made me laugh or cry or think or see things in a different light, or put words to inklings or ideas jumbled up in my head

2.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Raising children has taught me more than words can say. If I had a clone of myself and I could see the 45 year old clone with no children I don't think I would enjoy her company. I don't think we would have much in common. I don't know if we could appreciate each other.

3.) What would you want to change about yourself? I wish I didn't have ADHD. I would get a lot more accomplished. I would finish the projects I started before moving on to the next shiny object. I could listen longer without losing interest. I would stop chasing after that next mental stimulation and just be.

4.) What do you want to do before you die? Before I die, I want to write a book or two, go to the rainforest, fly a plane, take several months and drive up highway one in a teardrop camper. I've always admired wild crafters, people who know what plants in the woods are safe to eat and what they are good for. I would like to know how to wild craft so I could go off to some remote, gorgeous untouched piece of America, pretend this country is not overdeveloped, that it's still wide open unexplored territory, and live off the land, without hearing a chainsaw in the background or a truck backing up or a plane flying overhead, to remind me that my fantasy isn't real.

5.) What is your most prized possession? Geez, I don't have a most prized possession, but I hope that by saying that I haven't just given the Universe the green light to burn my house down so it can say "Liar! Look at you blubbering all those baby photos you never had time to put into albums. You could have run back into the living room where you probably would have shelved them and you'd have them in your hands right now. Wouldn't you?" I would like to think the Universe doesn't talk to me like that. Ever. I would like to think it only talks to me nicely, like when I get a parking spot closest to the door. Thanks, Universe! I really love that!

Ken "Passion, Enthusiasm, Rising Above"

2009-07-26T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Ken
Age: 45
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: Seattle (til 5), then OC
I currently live in: Oceanside, CA
Occupation: Marketing Analyst
You can find me: Working.....ughhh
You will never find me: getting a manicure /karioke (so lame, thx Japan!)
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.ouac.com

1.) Who or what Inspires you? passion, enthusiasm, rising above

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? inability to calm down for sustained periods

3.) What is your most prized possession? my kids!

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Dad, because he's always been there for me when I needed guidance and help.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? As a happy person who made those around him happy

Cheryl "I have my dream job"

2009-07-25T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Cheryl
Age: 37
Sign: Gemini
I grew up in: London Ontario Canada
I currently live in: San Francisco
Occupation: photographer / founder and creative director for the online lesbian magazine, GoGetYourGirlOn.com
You can find me: staring at you
You will never find me: eating liver
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.gogetyourgirlon.com
1.)What is your dream job? I have my dream job. It's usually whatever I want to do when I wake up.

2.)What are you most proud of? Teaching my dog recall.

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? A woman.

4.)Who would you like to meet? Mick Jagger

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? Going to bed at night. I hate going to bed.
What is the best part of your day? morning snuggles with my 11 pound dog who thinks that my pillow is his place for sleeping.

Cassie "Always Trying To Do More, To Make A Change"

2009-07-24T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Cassie
Age: 28
Sign: LEO, through and through
I grew up in: all over the states, my parents liked to travel
I currently live in: Nashville, TN
Occupation: Im a Massage Therapist & First Responder
You can find me: Always trying to do more, to make a change
You will never find me: Never sayin never, because what i do know, is that you never know.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Tennessee PKU Foundation, Autism, & Gay Rights

1.) Who or what Inspires you? people in general, I love know where people come from and about their journey getting there.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? My perception of myself

3.) What is your most prized possession? my pictures and my turtles

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My grandmother & my mom Why? They both come from very hard lifes, but they both have this amazing strength and determination. Because of that they have done so much to better themselves and other people.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? I dont know yet. I always wanted to beremembred as this loyal person that would do anything for anyone. But these days, I want to be more...than just some loyal servant to the people. I want to do something great.

Dot "Empowerring Myself And Others"

2009-07-23T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Dot
Age: Thirty something!
Sign: Pisces
Occupation: Vocal Empowerment Coach
I grew up in: Suburb of Toronto, Ontario (But I have dual citizenship
because my father is American! Yahoo!)
I currently live in: Los Angeles, California
You can find me: teaching celebrities and everyday people voice
lessons in and around Los Angeles and online at http://www.mindsoulvoice.com
You will never find me: in a closed in place where people are smoking.
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.dotsvoicestudios.com
- finally a way to connect with and support the hearts and souls of
the world (not just my students) via video, mp3, and written materials
about empowered vocal expression.

1.) What are you passionate about? Empowering myself and others using creative vocal expression! I LOVE my job so much it doesn't feel like
work!

2.) What are you most proud of? My first of it's kind, Interactive
Vocal Empowerment Training DVD I just completed http://www.corevocalpower.com that helps people connect to their soul (core) and sing better. I'm thrilled with the positive results and feedback we're getting as
well.. and I'm also proud of the fact my dog and sing and play the
piano, guitar and drums. No joke!

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Why?
That's a very tough one. Aside from my mothers (I have two, one
biological and one adopted me. One is White and one is Black - both
amazing women), Susan L. Taylor, Editor in Chief of Essence Magazine,
because her inspiring writings over 20 years were a consistent
positive energy in my life that gave me hope, led me to dig deep into
my own soul, and helped me define who I am now.

4.) What is difficult for you? Human frailty.

5.) Who would you like to meet? Oprah Winfrey, Susan L. Taylor, Ellen
Degeneres, Tyra Banks and Simon Le Bon.

Jon "Time Is My Most Prized Possession"

2009-07-22T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Jon
Age: 37
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: Dearborn, MI
I currently live in: Walled Lake, MI
Occupation: IT Consultant, General Motors
You can find me: Looking for more time in the day, Looking for the next thing, Searching for the answer, Planning, Thinking, Being grateful for all I have, Wishing for more, Wanting to read more, Wanting to write more, Wishing to experience more of life, see more places, meet more people, Wanting to connect at a deeper level, Always trying to learn more, grow more, experience more, Trying to be more observant, be more in the moment, be more sensitive, Be more in tune with whats happening around me, Wanting to give more of myself to others
You will never find me: Driving the speed limit, Content, Listening to bad music, Without adventure, Without conflict, Thinking of myself first, taking the simple things for granted
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://jsrussellblog.blogspot.com/

1.) Who or what Inspires you? Anyone who truly finds contentment in their own path thru life

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? Break out of the rat race

3.) What is your most prized possession? Working very hard not to have one of those, with the exception of time, time is my most prized possession

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My wife. She is a very positive force and graceful spirit. The yin to my yang

5.) How do you want to be remembered? I'm still working that out, and nowhere near where I want to be

Ariella "I Am Empowered"

2009-07-20T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Ariella
Age: 28
Sign: Gemini
Occupation: Vocalist & Voice Teacher
I grew up in: Minnesota
I currently live in: Los Angeles, CA
You can find me: Singing, percussing and vocally improvising
You will never find me: watching television
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.EarthSounds.net

1.) What are you passionate about? Sharing the truest expression of self and connecting to self on a Soul level. We are conditioned in our society to look, sound and act a certain way. Only some people (and very few) are actually comfortable looking, sounding and acting those ways. I am empowered, always honestly expressing myself, and encouraging others to do so too, primarily in my practice through the voice, but also in all ways, shapes and forms to be well-rounded, healthy individuals in a communal world.

2.) What are you most proud of? My undying drive to live my dreams as a performer and teacher.

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My grandfather was a man of the earth, a farmer and wise teacher. He was always sharing a lesson, and always getting his hands dirty. I enjoyed his passion for the smallest things in life like the richness of the soil, mixed with his passion for making a difference in the world. I only really started to grasp how much of an impact he had on me after his passing.

4.) What is difficult for you? I have a difficult time when others hold back their feelings or withdraw from communication.

5.) Who would you like to meet? I would like to meet - and sing with - Bobby McFerrin and Peter Gabriel.

Caroline "I Crave Knowledge"

2009-07-19T00:01:00.000-07:00

1.)Who or what inspires you? What...the little things in life...the weather...the flowers...the average person just making the very best of what they have...the smallest acts of kindness...largest acts of love...the human spirit in each any everyone of us...it's in there we just have to find it...

2.)What are you most proud of? my one daughter...the person she is becoming with my help..she is my greatest accomplishment...

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? my outlook on life is never from the feeling of loss...just that life is a journey planned just for me and in every aspect of my journey...the good and the bad...my job is to pay attention and learn from life's loss and all it's blessings.

4.)Who would you like to meet? God

5.)What is the hardest part of your day? getting to sleep...I can't turn my mind "off" What is the best part of your day? waking up to a brand new day of adventures...there is always something to learn and I crave knowledge from all areas...

Calvin "Squirrel Suit"

2009-07-18T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Calvin
Sign: Capricorn
Where I grew up: Garden Grove
Where I live today: Anaheim
You can find me: on the 91 freeway during rush hour
You won't find me: Home
Occupation:Computer Tech

1.)What is your lifelong dream?
To get enough money to be successful and afford my hobbies of driving race cars, snowboard, ski, surf. All of the things I can't do now because I don't have enough time.

2.)Who has been the most influential person in your life?
My Mother. Even if things go badly in the family, she takes it with a smile. She can leave it all behind and it won't bother her. She teaches me not to back down even when I want to.

3.)What has been your life altering experience?
I got this job in California. I applied for one in Arizona but was turned down. Since I am here and work here, I will be able to go to school as a resident of California. I want to go to school to study psychology.

4.) What do you want to do before you die?
I want to drive on the wrong side of the freeway and jump off of a cliff with a squirrel suit on.

5.) What would your last meal be?
Pizza

Eva "My Loving Heart"

2009-07-17T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Eva Montealegre Pen Name: Eva Batonne
Age: 52 years young
Sign: Taurus on the cusp of Gemini
Occupation: Artist/Author/Reiki Master
I grew up in: St. Louis, Missouri
I currently live in: Topanga/Malibu
You can find me: at the Modern Art Gallery and Blue Bird Art House and THE IMAGINE CENTER
You will never find me: drunk in a bar
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.evamontealegre.com AND the volunteer organization founded by Shawnee known as Heart Touch Org

1.) What are you passionate about? Art

2.) What are you most proud of? my loving heart

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Why? Jackson Pollack because in spite of his own darkness and flaws and in many ways, his imprisoned soul, he created original art that was freeing for himself and others. Plus, his story and the story of his wife's dedication has been extremely inspiring to me.

4.) What is difficult for you? to do nothing when others are in anguish, especially the elderly, children and babies...

5.) Who would you like to meet? The author of Love Medicine, Louise Erdrich

Bev "You'll Find Me Surfing"

2009-07-16T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Bev

Age: 55

Sign: Gemini

I grew up in: Greenfield, Massachusetts

I currently live in: Carmel, CA

Occupation: Founder Las Olas Surf Safaris for Women

You can find me: You'll find me surfing in warm water or at my desk

You will never find me: under the bed

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.surflasolas.com

1.) Who or what Inspires you? People who make change, especially those who do it with a smile on my face

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I wake up crabby.

3.) What is your most prized possession? Um, the great food I'm about to eat.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Husband. He still likes me.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? I was kind to animals and did my best to empower women thru surfing.

Kim "Blossoming Beyond Belief"

2009-07-15T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Kim
Age: 47
Sign: Cancer/Ox
Occupation: Computer Operator, Mother, Leader
I grew up in: Port Angeles, WA
I currently live in: Salem, OR
You can find me: On the computer or becoming one with a waterfall
You will never find me: Stagnant in my self growth
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Lavender Womyn (http://www.lavenderwomyn.com/)

1.) What are you passionate about? Life, Learning, Lavender Womyn and my soulmate, Kathy.

2.) What are you most proud of? Four things...First, surviving the death of my first husband at 20 years old (that'll do a number on you). Secondly, having the courage to finally "come out" and live my life the way I was meant to. Thirdly, creating the lesbian social group Lavender Womyn six years ago, and it's still growing all over the world. And last, but definitely not least, being a cancer survivor!

3.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? Several people. First, my mom. Through her own growth, I have been able to learn and grow as well. My best friend, Julie, who taught me to not be a wall flower and helped me to blossom beyond belief. And most importantly, my partner, Kathy, who has taught me great love, respect, and patience through the challenges of life and relationships.

4.) What is difficult for you? Accepting loss.

5.) Who would you like to meet? Ellen DeGeneres and Melissa Etheridge

Tiffany "My Grandma Made My Childhood Heaven"

2009-07-14T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Tiffany
Age:36
Sign:Libra
I grew up in:Pico Rivera , California
I currently live in:Long Beach, California, but would love to live in Salem Mass, half the year
Occupation:Artist of all mediums, but Tattoo Artist by trade
You can find me: toiling away into some sort of project, creating a mess at the same time
You will never find me: giving my hard earned money to any church of any kind ever!
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.dogsdeservebetter.com.. go to it and you will see why

1.) Who or what Inspires you? Emotions are my inspiration, I create to release, weather it is out of love, regret, anger, or desperation

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? my focus, i get distracted easily, by foods, sounds, a pimple, anything could take away from my focus

3.) What is your most prized possession? a ring, but not because of the retail value, but the story that goes along with it...It belonged to my grandma, and was cut off her finger in the hospital when she passed away...many years passed since she died, and my parents divorced. My mother moved into my Grandma's house and developed a serious drug problem. Everything that was not nailed down was stolen, sold or destroyed, all that remained was the house and my mom's drug problem was causing even that to slip from her hands. I had not spoken to my mom for a few years and out of the blue she called me to ask for my help to get off drugs. I did everything I could to get her sober and at the same time save my Grandma's house along with all my fond memories of her from being condemned.. I put every scent into repairs. that house eventually was back to beautiful, until my mother presented me with a huge property tax bill, that had not been paid for 8 yrs..Flat broke now, and holding a notice to pay of the house will be seized, I realized, i have lost and will have nothing physical left of my Granada to remember her by. Needing time alone, I choose to Cleon up dog poop from the backyard since no one else would do it, and a lump of dirt got stuck on the end of the shovel, I did not want to touch it since it was probably poop, but no matter how hard I banged on the shovel ,it would not come off, and was hindering more poop from getting scooped up, so I had no choice but to pull it off. In a moment of bravery and disgust, I grabbed it quickly with the intent to fling it as far away from me as I could, but for some unknown reason while mid throw, my hand did not let go, and actually proceeded to squeeze the lump of dirt, practically over my head, crumbling it in my hand...Curiously I drew my hand back to look at it and saw something shining in it, so I continued to break the dirt away, only to reveal the ring that had been cut off my Grandma's finger. the cut part was wedged in the tip of the shovel encased in the dirt. i had no idea how it could have stayed out there fro all those years, I had a gardener every two weeks, and at one point had to remove a second story from the garage and meticulously made sure every splinter was removed from that yard as to not hurt my dogs I had at the time...I take it as the one thing my grandma was able to leave me of hers.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? I would have to say my grandma.. she was level headed, smart, and fun as hell. My childhood was hell, but she made it heaven. if she had never been around, I may have turned out different.. I live each day as if she is still here, so that she can still be proud of me

5.) How do you want to be remembered? with the heart..loved in life, loved in death

Nicole "You Will Never Find Me In Jail"

2009-07-13T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Nicole

Age: 28

Sign: Libra

I grew up in: Irvine, CA

I currently live in: Long Beach, CA

Occupation: Marketing Manager

You can find me: outside, surfing, walking, cleaning, playing, and of course... eating

You will never find me: in jail

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: http://www.leukemia-lymphoma.org/hm_lls

1.) Who or what Inspires you? people who exceed expectations and take it upon themselves to better the world and more importantly, his or her self. People who are considerate and compassionate for others and have a positive outlook on life.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? My logical thinking. Sometimes i think too logical, sometimes it's better to just go with the flow of life, logical or not.

3.) What is your most prized possession? My eyes. They help me see the world.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? everyone. I've learned something from everyone. My parents are the one who set me on the path of knowing right from wrong. They influenced me to choose the best possible road for me and have supported me every step of the way. And everyone i have met has helped me understand different perspectives and therefore has influenced me.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? As compassionate, loving, optimistic, reliable, funny and fun. Hopefully, one day, a loving mother, wife, daughter, and friend.

Tamra "In The Water"

2009-07-12T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Tamra
Age: Guess
Sign: Cancer
I grew up in: NYC and Connecticut
I currently live in: California
Occupation: Consultant
You can find me: in the water
You will never find me: At a Baptist Church
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Angel's Gate (hospice for animals - amazing people)

1.) Who or what Inspires you? beauty...people who care for animals, animals

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I'd like to be taller and thinner and a lot smarter!

3.) What life experience has strengthened you the most? Rejection, failure, loss all can turn into very interesting journeys

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My dad.

5.)What's your favorite food? Sushi

Terri "You Can Find Me Scuba Diving"

2009-07-11T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Terri
Age: 36
Sign: Aquarius
I grew up in: Small town Arkansas
I currently live in: Atlanta, GA
Occupation: Public Safety Network Engineer
You can find me: Scuba diving when the water is warm
You will never find me: KKK rally
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.seaterri.com

1.) Who or what Inspires you? Life

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? nothing

3.) What is your most prized possession? my bible

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My mom cause she is the ultimate survivor

5.) How do you want to be remembered? Being a friends friend and loving without judgement

Teri "Playing Water Polo"

2009-07-10T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Teri

Age: 34

Sign: Capricorn

I grew up in: Houston

I currently live in: Long Beach

Occupation: Human Resources Administrator

You can find me: in the pool playing water polo, on a run, on a hike, in the ocean or with my wife

You will never find me: moving back to Texas, way too humid

Your website or Charity you are passionate about: facebook or usawaterpolo.com

1.) Who or what Inspires you? What inspires me is life..and people who keep fighting in spite of the struggle

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? my insecurities

3.) What is your most prized possession? my stuffed monkey from when I was two (his name is sam)

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My mother has been the most influential person in my life. She has always encouraged me to be the best I can be, always strive to reach my goals, and always treat others as I would like to be treated

5.) How do you want to be remembered? with respect & love, as someone who loved & who others loved, as a good friend, good wife, & good daughter

Michelle "I Don't Have Any Regrets"

2009-07-09T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Michelle
Age:37
Sign:Sagittarius
Occupation:Development Associate for the Special Olympics
I grew up in: Huntington Beach, CA
I currently live in: Long Beach, CA
You can find me: walking my dog in Carroll Park, pub quiz night at Gallagher's or in front of my computer doing homework
You will never find me: at church
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Cancer Society, Team in Training and amrt.net (animal match rescue team)

1.) Who or what inspires you?
I'm inspired by people that strive to be their best, by people that can and do change, by people that encourage or help others, and by people that don't give up.

2.) What is difficult for you?
Going back to school while working full time, training for a half marathon, trying to have a social life, and still making sure that I pay attention to and walk my dog (Suvi).

3.) What is your biggest regret?
I don't have any

4.) What are you most proud of?
Taking care of and being strong for my mother while she battled cancer.

5.) What do you want to do before you die?
Gondola ride through the canals of Venice, Italy. Order something off of a coffeeship menu in Amersterdam. Climb Mayan ruins. Stay in a beach hut over the water in Tahiti. Travel through India by train. Learn to speak Spanish and French. Live in another country.

Jade "I'd Like To Write A Book"

2009-07-08T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name:Jade
Age:23
Sign:Leo
Occupation:Senior Office Manager
I grew up in:South Africa
I currently live in:Portland, Oregon
You can find me:At work usually now a days
You will never find me:At a steakhouse
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.peta.org
1.) Who or what inspires you?
Art, in any form; the multi-faceted ways people express themselves, whether it's putting a pen to paper, or music and lyrics, a dance, photography. Whatever it maybe I think the theme that runs through them all for me is that it comes from a deep part of someone else and it is displayed openly without preconception of what the outside world may think. That leads me to be more precise and say that I'm inspired by people taking a chance with their expression, putting their hopes and dreams on the line. I really appreciate the risk. If I were to say who; the greats... Maya Angelou, Rudyard Kipling, Prefontaine (he's an artist so to speak), Bob Fosse, Herman Hesse, Ansel Adams, Pink Floyd... it continues.

2.) What is difficult for you?
Enjoying the moment, I ruminate on the possibility too much and forget the present. I once had someone tell me that worrying is a different form of praying and it's true. You meditate on something long enough and it will manifest, whether it is a positive thing or a negative thing. I try my best to acknowledge my thoughts and then bid them farewell but it's not easy teaching your mind new tricks. It's a path I must walk over and over again until it becomes second nature. I have a long ways to go.

3.) What is your biggest regret?
Not continuing my education and practice with dance and theater, dance especially. I've danced since I was three and it was the one thing that made me feel powerful and at peace. Driving in my car to work I can choreograph a whole number in my head and I feel that pull to dance again, I just haven't had the balls to start back up. The closest I get to dancing again is going to the clubs or shutting my bedroom door at night.

4.) What are you most proud of?
I'm proud that I'm someone who can face their problems. I made a decision that I wasn't going to wake up at 40 and look around me and wonder how the hell I got to where I am. I've made a decision to figure out myself and although it may be hard and sometimes I feel like giving up, if I don't do it now I'll be living a life that isn't me and that's not how I want to spend my time on this earth.

5.) What do you want to do before you die?
I'd like to write a book. Not sure exactly what about yet, but I have had a few ideas. I don't care how many are sold but I'd really enjoy going through the process and honing my skills as a writer.

Melissa "Online All The Time"

2009-07-07T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Melissa
Age: 32
Sign: Capricorn
I grew up in: So Cal
I currently live in: WeHo
Occupation: Online Marketing/Publisher
You can find me: online all the time
You will never find me: in church
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: my website LesbianLush.com and all charities related to gay rights

1.)What is your dream job? dream job? something creative and challenging that will make enough money to live comfortably enough to avoid financial stress.

2.)What are you most proud of? taking the time needed to be healthy enough emotionally before jumping into a relationship with my woman, Anna, my life partner!

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? Don Pizzella

4.)Who would you like to meet? Anna & my first child

5.)What is difficult for you? understanding bigotry and racism

Debra "I Would Like To Be More Adventuresome"

2009-07-06T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Debra
Age: 47
Sign: Libra
Occupation: Office Supervisor
I grew up in: Sleepy Eye, MN
I currently live in: Inver Grove Heights
You can find me: at home
You will never find me: at a triathalon
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: American Heart Association

1.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? my parents

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? I would like to be more adventuresome - and maybe lose 50 pounds

3.) Is there something you would do differently if you could go back in time? No - everything that has happened to me made me who I am.

4.) How do you measure success? If I am happy and can reasonably support myself i feel successful

5.) What is your most prized possession? I don't know - my kids and husband are not possesions.

Carol "Excited About The Future"

2009-07-05T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Carol
Age: 58
Sign: Leo
I grew up in: Illinois
I currently live in: Illinois
Occupation: Self employed author, writer, entrepreneur
You can find me: excited about the future
You will never find me: criticizing the right of others to be different from me
Your website or charity you are passionate about: anything that assures the wellbeing of dogs

1.) Who or what Inspires you? Beautiful things and places

2.)What would you want to change about yourself? My weight

3.) What is your most prized possession? My upbeat enthusiasm

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? A high school English teacher named Bob. Through him I discovered my sense of self

5.) How do you want to be remembered? As smart, energetic and always willing to help

Barbara "Good Mother, Lover, And Friend"

2009-07-04T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Barbara
Age:38
Sign:Sagg
I grew up in:Michigan
I currently live in:Florida
Occupation:Manager
You can find me:Living everyday as if it were my last with my family.
You will never find me: Living in someones Drama
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Peta

1.) Who or what Inspires you? My daughters

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? If I would have changed anything I would have changed it by now..

3.) What is your most prized possession? Material nothing..

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? My Grandmother. She was a educated women in the 30's and stood up for what she beleieved in..

5.) How do you want to be remembered? That I was a good mother, lover, and friend

Angela "Making My Own Way In Life"

2009-07-03T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Angela
Age: 38
Sign: Capricorn
Occupation: National Account Executive, Sales
I grew up in: Seymour, Indiana
I currently live in: Long Beach, CA
You can find me: walking my dog, in the gym, or at my laptop
You will never find me: in support of inequality
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: PFLAG: www.pflag.org

1.) Who or what inspires you? courageous, driven people

2.) What is difficult for you? slowing myself down

3.) What is your biggest regret? no regrets, only lessons

4.) What are you most proud of? making my own way in life

5.) What do you want to do before you die? too many things to list: #1 travel more

Brittney "Trying To Find Myself"

2009-07-02T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Brittney
Age: 19
Sign: Scorpio
I grew up in: Lake Havasu City, AZ
I currently live in: Still in Havasu
Occupation: In training as a Pharmacy Technician
You can find me: trying to find myself
You will never find me: conforming to the masses
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: My blog: http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.ListAll&f
riendId=3556974 Generally I blog about the funny things that happen in my life. Humor is what keeps me going.

1.)What is your dream job? I'm still trying to figure that out. Maybe a travel writer? Forensic scientist? Research Psychologist? English Professor? I haven't the faintest.

2.)What are you most proud of? My eccentricity

3.)What has been your greatest loss in life? I look at loss as in inevitable gain, in that a new path is made and enables one to learn.

4.)Who would you like to meet? Diane Gaidry, because she's smokin' hot and a beautiful soul

5.)What is difficult for you? Following one train of thought at a time

Elizabeth "Running The Lakes"

2009-07-01T00:01:00.000-07:00

Name: Elizabeth
Age: 33
Sign: Pisces
Occupation: Public sector project manager
I grew up in: Edina, MN – epitome of surburbia
I currently live in: Mpls Warehouse District
You can find me: Running the lakes, Mississippi river, Walker Art Center, Caribou Coffee in the “other govt center”
You will never find me: Not wanting to try at least something once
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.apartmenttherapy.com, (Amazing site chock-full of design ideas with an eye for the aesthetics) www.nytimes.com (Got to get the news somehow)

1.) Who or what inspires you? Generosity of spirit and humility

2.) What is difficult for you? Moving on and letting go

3.) What is your biggest regret? Not recognizing and/or making a conscious decision at watershed points of my life

4.) What are you most proud of? Being able to say “I don’t know” and then go find out how, why and what

5.) What do you want to do before you die? Still trying to figure that out…

Kary "You Will Never Find Me In An Office"

2009-06-30T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Kary

Age:41

Sign:Libra

I grew up in: Santa Barabra

I currently live in: San Francisco

Occupation: Fill Maker, Fundraiser, Entrepreneur

You can find me: Traveling to excited new places have amazing adventures

You will never find me: In a office

Your website or Charity you are passionate about:
Haight Ashbury free medical clinic

1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? Thought of changing the world and saving the animals

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? My relationship status

3.) What do you want to do before you die? Everything!

4.) What are you most proud of? My Work

5.) What is your most prized possession? my loved ones

Shelly "You Can Find Me Laughing"

2009-06-29T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Shelly
Age: 41
Sign: Aries
I grew up in: Northern California
I currently live in: LA
Occupation: marketing
You can find me: laughing
You will never find me: crocodile hunting
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: Project Angel Food www.angelfood.org

1.) Who or what Inspires you? My daughter. At the age of 8 on her own she decided she wanted to cut off her long hair and donate it to kids with cancer just because. She's regrowing it to do it again.

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? To not be so nice :)

3.) What is your most prized possession? Memories of my daughters giggle fests.

4.) Who has been the most influential person in your life? I've had two friends die of brain tumors. And when I forget to remember the important things I think about how they would still want to be here and I shouldn't take the moment for granted. And when I think something is bad, saying, "it's not a brain tumor," reminds me to put it in perspective.

5.) How do you want to be remembered? As a person who made a positive impact on that person's life either with something as simple as a genuine smile or having imparted a key piece of knowledge.

Cynthia "Spending Time With My Dog"

2009-06-28T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Cynthia
Age: 47
Sign: Capricorn
I grew up in: Michigan
I currently live in: Atlanta
You can find me: Spending time with my dog

What is your dream job: Flight Attendant

What has been your greatest loss in life: Death of my husband

Who would you like to meet? President Barack Obama

How would you like to be remembered? As a caring and easygoing person.

What is your greatest achievement? Graduating from college with my Bachelor's degree in Psychology

Stephanie "Doing Something Fun"

2009-06-27T00:01:00.000-07:00

First Name: Stephanie
I grew up in: North Tustin, CA
I currently live in: Santa Ana, CA
Occupation: Sales Executive
You can find me: Doing something fun
You will never find me: cheating ever again
Your website or Charity you are passionate about: www.ncaa.org
1.) What (person, goal, dream) gets you out of bed each day? Life itself

2.) What would you want to change about yourself? Nothing

3.) What do you want to do before you die? Be satisfied

4.) What are you most proud of? My accomplishments

5.) What is your most prized possession? My passion